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chula809 · Apr 13, 2009, 06:56 AM

Okay.. I really need some help here please!! :(

Me and my boyfriend were together for 8 months
My ex mess up ones and than we call me telling me baby Iam sorry I won't do it again give me a second chance but he had a new girl... so he broke up with the girl for me I told him no at first but than I don't know what happens to me that I said so okay lets try to make this work this time than like 2 months later... he started to ignored my calls,text messages everything so one day I went to my misspace and I went to see his ex profile and I saw that she had the first letter of his name and hers too so I decided to text him and tell him a lot of stuff like "you not worth it i deserve someone better than you!!ooh yea he use to tell me that he love me all the time and that i deserve someone better than him so in the text i told "that he was rite by telling me that I deserve someone better than him you not worth it I was so stupid to think that maybe the second time you will actually care...
But I was wrong people never change so he sent me a message back telling me that I finally spoke my mind!!

So now I just want to make him realize that he did a big mistake and I want him to miss me... but I don't want him back I just want him to miss me that's all loll... :rallyes:

Justwantfair · Apr 13, 2009, 07:17 AM

You are playing games, which is ridiculous and you won't find support for that here.

Move on with your life and let him have his.

You said you deserve better now you have that chance. First you need to work on yourself. Games do not have any place in a relationship, you have to love yourself before you can love and have a relationship that will work.

xo-Niicole · Apr 13, 2009, 07:25 AM

Are you serious!
Give up on the guy, he clearly does NOT care anymore. Why would you want to waste your time?

Just show him you don't give a s**t. Don't message him, don't e-mail him, don't show any affection for him. Basically, ignore him.

And then maybe he'll miss you.

But honestly, move on.

liz28 · Apr 13, 2009, 07:37 AM

It doesn't sounds like he misses you. He is moving on and have someone new.

If you don't want him back than you shouldn't care about if he misses you or not. You sound like you want him back and want him to leave who he with and come back to you begging.

I know I wouldn't want to be anyone sideline nor rebound chick. I would just completely cut him from my life and move forward instead of keep going backwards.

Btw, stop checking his myspace but that proves you still miss him.

jjwoodhull · Apr 13, 2009, 07:41 AM

You are seriously wasting your time if you think you can make him miss you. Move on with your life and put your energy into a new and healthy relationship.

talaniman · Apr 13, 2009, 08:14 AM

If you put as much time, and energy, into something worthwhile for yourself, (enjoying what you said you deserve) as you do in anger, and revenge, you would have something good going on.

skhan85 · Oct 5, 2010, 02:34 AM

Sometimes letting go is the only option. You are going through grieving process - You may not know it yet, but you are moving on and missing him, anger and so on is a part of it - Remember just keep it as a thought and don't play out on it, then eventually you will break that cycle of missing him and wanting him to miss you. :)