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    Jan 4, 2007, 06:22 AM
    He cheated ,beat me but still cant let go
    :( I have been going out with a boy for around 3 years I recently told him I didn't want a relationship with him no more has he had cheated on me to many times and beat me up a number ofoccasions .it has been around a year and a half now and we still see each other we always end up sleeping with each other and staying with each other until he gets on my nerves or I found out a girl he has been slepping with,I don't want to be with him but we just seem to always come back to each other.he tells me he loves me and I'm the only one for him he is really nice to me and I treat him like a peace of to feel like he haven't one me back I call him all names I tell imhes nothing and he begs me to stay I don't want to go on like this no more.
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    Jan 4, 2007, 07:05 AM
    I think u need 2 leave hiz
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    Jan 4, 2007, 07:05 AM
    Azzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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    Jan 4, 2007, 07:10 AM
    Seems like you answered your own question.
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    Jan 4, 2007, 07:26 AM
    I understand what you are going through but enough is enough, it seems you keep going back because it is familiar territory. I know three years is a long time so going back to him feels comfortable. You should just stay away from him and that's that! No matter how much you or him want to see each other, etc. jUst try to be strong and stay clear of him that way you have an opportunity to get close to someone else, hopefully a decent guy.
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    Jan 4, 2007, 09:04 AM
    Emotional withdrawal from the attachment you have with this person is needed so that you can regain focus in your life.

    See previous posts on no contact, do this for a period of a month, this will allow you to find yourself again.

    After this period you will have gained clarity and you will see the situation for what it is!
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    Jan 4, 2007, 09:51 AM
    Honey, its time to move on. This relationship is too destructive. Listen to the advice you've been given here and sever all ties.
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    Jan 4, 2007, 09:58 AM
    I think you know what you must do. Finish this relationship and move on!
    Life is too short to be in such a volatile relationship like this. You would both be better off if you were not together.

    Also.. He is a cheat, and this is certainly not something to EVER be forgiven, especially if it was more than once.

    Think about it.. You deserve better.
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    Jan 4, 2007, 10:01 PM
    These folks are right simone, you must break this destructive cycle.
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    Jan 4, 2007, 10:15 PM
    You let this happen to yourself. You're his play toy. Why do you let it happen? You break up it is over, no more contact. No more sex, Because remember every single person he has slept with you sleep with too. How many is that? Now it is time to think about Aids, and other diseases. You could die in another 10 years. Maybe sooner. What do you think is that a wake up call or what. All this behaviour will lead up to is your funeral.

    Joe
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