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sexyaft30 · Dec 18, 2012, 12:11 PM

I have been dating an amazing guy for a month and we recently broke up because I gave my business number to one of his team mates during his flag football game. It was completely innocent and I did it right in front of him then told him what I did afterwards because my business runs on people that I know.

We discussed it and things were heated in a conversation ending with him telling me I don't come any where close to his ex. I was hurt, therefore I ended it. Yet, after sleeping on it over night. He was the best thing that has ever happened to me in a long time and I was really falling for him hard. I messed up and want him back. He says that he isn't mad at me and things happen for a reason.

I have been working on a dance routine just for him for the past week and I really want to show it to him. Ive worked hard on it and I don't want to loose the window of opprotunuty to get him back. The problem is that I hid his number from myself with no way of retrieving it because I have a habit of calling and texting ex's.

Would it be wrong of me to stop by his house in nothing but a provocative dress with a nice seductive outfit underneath to show him the routine. If he doesn't want me back, I understand but I do what to show him what I did just for him.

Oliver2011 · Dec 18, 2012, 12:25 PM

I don't get it. Do you have a habit of acting irrational before considering all possible decisions and outcomes? Seriously if you two are acting like this after just a month, nobody will want to be around you two in a year. Move on, find someone new, and if he calls you then maybe you can reconsider.

I have been seeing someone for 2 years and have been exclusive for a month or so, and we would never behave like that.

mystific · Dec 18, 2012, 05:14 PM

My question is.. what did his ex do to create this animosity he has to you handing over a business card - even for legit purposes?

If his reaction is based on something his ex done.. and he is still smarting from it, then the chances are he's reliving that through you. How long has he been an 'ex' from his ex? Possible rebound issues there.

I'd leave the dance routine for now. Focus on the reason, then see if you can fix it.. then once it's settled, do the routine. For now.. objective should be to test the waters and fix any irrational thoughts he may have that involve any carry over issues with the ex.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 18, 2012, 07:00 PM

He shows signs of anger and improper jealous behavior, you are showing signs of being immature. If you have no sex respect and dignity and want to be considered a sex toy by him, sure, I am sure he will use you for sex for a little longer till you fight the next time.

The reason you hid the number was your poor choices before, this is another one. Instead of making a dance for him, what about moving on and forgetting him.