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kjh · Jun 7, 2012, 01:56 PM

My partner of 4 years has anger and numerous other issues. He has a short temper and gets in bad moods over tiny things i.e. dropping something on the floor, then he'll shout and rant and go beserk. He has to have everything in the right place and notices straight away if I've gone into a drawer and questions why (I do live there)
We've lived together for 6 months and its been awful he gets in from work and draws. The curtains and sleeps on the sofa or goes to bed he then gets up when its late and I'm going to bed.
He very cold emotionally and rarely gives me cuddles except after sex. I miscarried in December and he didn't come to the hospital with me but got out of bed gave me the money for a cab and then went back to bed. I eventually had an erpc 5 weeks later he never talked to me about it or sypported me at all just said he didn't want anymore kids as he has 2 from previoud relationship. He speaks to none of his family as they don't get on and argue. He drinks at weekends until he's legless and takes cocoaine about twice a month. He stupid rude and verbally abusive when drunk
.He's a very bad judge of character and will make friends with dodgy horrible people.
Whhen we argue he then gives me the silent treatment for days weeks sometimes for a month. Obviously he's not like this all the time he had a bad childhhood and was put in care at about 3 yrs old but says he doesn't know why, sexually its like he's not interested at all he has erectile problems and retarded ejaculation. I just think he has so many weird issues and I feel so unloved that I want answers and a different life. Any advice would be a help. Thanks K

ldarkphoenix · Jun 7, 2012, 04:37 PM

Originally Posted by kjh

My partner of 4 years has anger and numerous other issues. He has a short temper and gets in bad moods over tiny things ie dropping something on the floor, then he'll shout and rant and go beserk. He has to have everything in the right place and notices straight away if I've gone into a drawer and questions why (I do live there)
We've lived together for 6 months and its been awful he gets in from work and draws. The curtains and sleeps on the sofa or goes to bed he then gets up when its late and I'm going to bed.
He very cold emotionally and rarely gives me cuddles except after sex. I miscarried in December and he didn't come to the hospital with me but got out of bed gave me the money for a cab and then went back to bed. I eventually had an erpc 5 weeks later he never talked to me about it or sypported me at all just said he didn't want anymore kids as he has 2 from previoud relationship. He speaks to none of his family as they don't get on and argue. He drinks at weekends until he's legless and takes cocoaine about twice a month. He stupid rude and verbally abusive when drunk
.He's a very bad judge of character and will make friends with dodgy horrible people.
Whhen we argue he then gives me the silent treatment for days weeks sometimes for a month. Obviously he's not like this all the time he had a bad childhhood and was put in care at about 3 yrs old but says he doesn't know why, sexually its like he's not interested at all he has erectile problems and retarded ejaculation. I just think he has so many weird issues and I feel so unloved that I want answers and a different life. Any advice would be a help. Thanks K

This is a horrible relationship that is dragging you down. You need to leave this guy and find someone who is a good person, and who will truly love you and take care of you... someone who really wants you. This guy is a complete loser, and his lousy childhood is no excuse to be this way. Many of use have bad childhoods, but it's our choice to live a certain way.
I hope you listen to any advice given here and find someone better.

smearcase · Jun 7, 2012, 04:52 PM

Find a way out of this situation and do it very carefully.