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stephaniee93 · Apr 29, 2012, 07:27 AM

Ok so I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and a bit, I'm 18 years of age, and I have been living with him over a year now. In the beginning of the relationship was amazing, had no doubts of being with him. Now? He's totally opposite... We had our big fights where he would have no patience and hit me, yes I know he would hit me ;( but I loved him too much to leave... but for the past months now me and him hardly have sex! He always watches porn, and it bothers me! I don't care thathe watches it, but if u want to watch it at least do something with me. Point is, he denies he watches it meanwhile I always see it on the history.
What also bothers me the most is okay, I may not be skinny, but I know I'm not fat, I have a little belly, and what hurts me the most is the man of my life, always calls me fat *****, you're a fat ****, go lose some weight and it hurts me inside, can someone please help me! I don't know what to do anymore

alexdelgado · Apr 29, 2012, 01:23 PM

Seems like he doesn't recpect you by saying those things and hitting you..

talaniman · Apr 29, 2012, 03:13 PM

If you love him too much to leave then he will keep abusing you, both physically, emotionally, verbally, and any other way he can find. If you only loved yourself as much as you love him, then you would do everything in your power to protect yourself and NOT take his abuse. Even leave if you have to, and just me, YOU LEAVE!!

DoulaLC · Apr 29, 2012, 03:27 PM

He hits you, calls you names, is not interested in being intimate with you... why are you with him? How is this the man of your life?

If you stay, expect more of the same. You are young, there are so many great guys out there who will treat you the way you want to be treated. Do not get into the mindset that this guy is the man of your life. Being alone for awhile is better than being mistreated.