Originally Posted by GoldieMae
1. He is not breaking any law by telling you that he is going to use an agent to sell it.
2. He is trying to get more for his house than he thinks it is worth. Of course he is. Every seller on the face of the planet is.
3. If you want to bid on the house, then offer him what you think it is worth, and put down little to no earnest money (maybe $1000). If you think it is worth 480,000, then that is what you should offer.
4. Your lender will require an appraisal if your offer is accepted. You can't get a mortgage without one. But lender appraisers always appraise homes for $2-3000 above the offer presented on the contract. They are in the business to help the mortgage company get the mortgage. If you want, hire your own appraiser to look at the house before you make an offer.
5. Put every possible contingency in that offer. Make it subject to appraisal, obtaining financing, getting a home inspection with no repairs, payment of the buyer's broker's commission, throw in the refrigerator, stove, and every yard tool in his garage, etc.
6. Do you have a buyer's broker? Get one if you don't, particularly in your area. The seller will have to pay the buyer's broker's commission, not you. He has the right to refuse to deal with anyone who has a broker, but I would not proceed without the aid of a broker in this case. And get one familiar with the area, not some guy from DC who only knows Chevy Chase.
7. Get title insurance. Your lender will require it, but even if they don't you should still get it.
Don't let the seller's self-interest scare you off from buying the home if you love it. Just be shrewd.