MayMsredrose,
I hope you don't mind if I take a stab at spocky dog's dream.
spocky dog,
This is just a general observation. From what I understand, most of the people we see in our dreams represent ourselves. Dreams are messages from us to us. And the best interpretation of your dreams is your interpretation. The people in our dreams may look like people we know because something about that person may help us to understand what the message is.
For example - If I dream of my mum, who is dead by the way, I find myself thinking "Okay so how would you help me with this particular problem?"
If I may.... Your concerns seem to be about your daughter and your husband and your dad seem to be saying "Go in doors there is nothing to worry about." But you are not convinced that they realise just how worried you are.
If this dream is still bothering you, I suggest you have a chat with them. You know what they say about a problem shared? The same goes for 'uncomfortable' dreams.