I met this girl. She is from Colombia, S.A. I met her while she was going through her divorce from her husband of 5 years. She says he was abusing her. She is now a citizen. We have been together for a year now. She admitted that a couple of months ago that she started seeing a guy she met, so I broke up with her. She wanted me back and says she didn't like him, she was just trying to get to know other people. Now we are back together, and she says she loves me and doesn't want anyone else but me. I am a Black American, and I work for the Airlines. We don't live together because her divorce from her husband states that she cannot have any men staying overnight with her and her daughter unless she was married to them. She says she is lonely and wants her sister to move here to be with her and to babysit her daughter so we could spend more quality time together and she could get a chance to travel with me and experience America. Her sister cannot get a visa from South America for some reason that I don't know. She says she would like for me to marry her sister so she can get citizenship to be here with her and after she gets citizenship, we would divorce and she would marry me. She says she just needs family here with her. How does this sound to anyone out there reading this?

Good grief. IF it smells like a fish, it is a fish and just plain fishy. If you want to be taken for a ride, taken for granted, taken for everything you got, then do this stupid thing that this woman is asking you. It is a no win situation.

If she loves you now, she can marry you. Her sister cannot come to the US because of some problem? Give me a break already. You should know the reason why she cannot enter the country. Don't settle for some lame excuse either. If need be, do some research on your own. Hire a detective. I think you are walking into a nightmare. Get out now while you are still standing and walking on your own.

Hello Sir. Don't fall for this stuff. She is a big con girl. She is using u to get her sister in. That's it. You will be in trouble for it.