Okay so Im emotionally distreesed about my ex we had gone out for a year it was rather rocky towards the end. Well I told him that Im moving to Big Bear and all of the sudden a week later he has a new girlfriend I don't understand. He said that I brought this upon myself because I told him that I liked someone but he knows that I talk out of anger well now people are telling me that he's talling them that he's so happy and all this and I totally got blown out of the picture and he also has been avoiding me since he found out about me moving... we had sex about a week before he got with her... you I think that there are still really big feelings there but I don't understand what he's doing right now...


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I am sorry you are hurt Panda. Without knowing you or your ex, all I can do is interpret what has happened from what you have written here. It appears that your boyfriend chose to move on to another relationship when you stated that you were relocating to Big Bear and that you like someone else. He may know that you talk out of anger, but it is very hard for most people to interpret what we actually mean when we don't communicate our true feelings. Although we would like our relationships to end on a better note, sometimes they just don't. Through arguments and misunderstandings, people get hurt. Some will wallow in that hurt. Others just close the door immediately and simply move onto the next relationship. It appears that is what your boyfriend has done. Again, I am sorry you are hurting.