Well. I work at a restaurant and there are three guys there who have caught my attention in different ways. The first is Divinci (not really I changed all of their names). Divinci is really fun and outgoing and crazy. We always have a lot of fun during work. He is 25. The next is Carrot (lol) who is really sweet, ambitious, a little bit shy it seems (like me), always seems to be in a great mood. And he's 20. Finally there is Gospel (don't ask why I thought of that... ha!) who is friendly, invites me out with him, is kind of cute, and 22. I am most attracted to Carrot. Divinci is of another race (which doesn't bother me, but might not fly with my parents/family) and has a girlfriend (which the word on the street and from him is that they are having problems and she is going to be moving away to school soon and they will be breaking up). And I really don't know much about Gospel because he is sort of new. Gospel seems most interested in me. I am most interested in Carrot. And Divinci is just one cool guy. Sounds like a frickin soap opera!

WHICH ONE SHOULD I GO AFTER?

I am 18 by the way. And the weird names I made up for them have nothing to do with their personalities. Like Divinci isn't a really intelligent artist (at least not that I know of). Carrot doesn't have a dull personality. And Gospel isn't madly religious. I'm just crazy like that!

I guess Divinci is out of the question, if since he have a girlfriend yet.

Go will the flow girl, you are young and I supposed single... have fun, maybe you can go out with the 3 guys just to see what you feel. Im not promoting an "Next" behavior like the mtv show, which I think is one of the great stupidities of the "educational" media this days. But you can have a meal or go to a movie and talk with them and see and feel what your heart has to tell.

Then the decision depends on what your looking for now in this period of your life, a relationship? A not attached love partner? What qualities are you looking for?. you can write them and then you can add to the mix what your heart told you, and then eureka...
We will have a winner!!

Have fun beauty!! But for the love of God don't hurt anybody feelings :)

Carrots are good for you. They help your eyes. Go for Carrot.

Ha ha... carrots are good for the eyes... in more ways then one (HE IS CUTE!).

I'd go for Gospel.

Maybe if you'd know more about him, you'd be more interested in him. Just give him a chance if he asks you out.

If not, what's so special about Carrot? The nickname is quite diminishing though... :rolleyes:

Forget Divinci. Girlfriend? Give the others equal time. What's the rush? If anyone pressures you for time, you will have your answer, for now.

What is so special about Carrot. I only call him Carrot because he has red hair. That's it. That's the explanation for the name. The other two are more of like a play on words regarding their real names. It's kind of strange how Carrot is the odd man out on the naming bit.

I got so caught up on explaining the name I forgot to tell you what was so great about Carrot. I work in a restaurant as a server which can get very stressful and I get in bad moods sometimes. Just seeing Carrots face kind of makes it a bit better and then when we have a conversation, I'm over whatever angered me. That and he is a sweetheart from what I have observed. He's also a little quiet, like me. It is funny because I say that I am really shy, but sometimes (mainly around very outgoing people) I am more comfortable and will be a wild child for a bit. It's strange how your company can change your behaviors.