:mad: hi my boyfriend of 2 years is being really Funny wit me since I got a place in college which I had to delay due to the birth of our 1 year old I no its not because of him looking after the kid because his mum is doing that plzzzzzzzzz can sum 1 gave me there ideas y he's like this

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Originally Posted by jammykit

:mad: Hi! My boyfriend of two years is being really funny with me since I got a place in college, which I had to delay due to the birth of our one-year-old. I know it's not because of him looking after the child because his mum is doing that. Please, can someone give me their ideas as to why he is like this?

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I hope that you don't mind. But, I took the liberty of rewording your question so that it makes a little more sense. I presume that you will be going to college. So, it is best to practice up on some correct spelling and grammar. It is best not to use chat-speak on this site if you want to be understood by people trying to provide you with intelligent answers to the best of their ability.

Just some ideas based upon the information that you have given - If your boyfriend hasn't been to college, he may be feeling a little intimidated that you have been accepted to a college. If he has not been to a college, and he would like to attend one, then I would suggest encouraging him to apply for one, provided that he has already completed and been successful at the coursework necessary to enter one.

He may be feeling like you are leaving your family and going beyond what the two of you have planned together. Not everyone needs to go to college to be successful at life and to have and be devoted and successful at having a family. I am glad that you are reaching for the goals that you have for yourself. I would urge you to encourage your boyfriend to work towards his goals, even if they don't include college.

Be ever supportive of him, as long as what he is trying to do will be of benefit to all of you as a family.

Just some ideas that I have. For that is what you asked. Hopefully, others will come along with their own ideas and suggestions.

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Hi! My boyfriend of two years is being really funny with me since I got a place in college,

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Could you explain how he is being funny?

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Originally Posted by jammykit

:mad: hi my boyfriend of 2 years is being really Funny wit me since i got a place in college which i had to delay due to the birth of our 1 year old i no its not coz of him lookin after the kid coz his mum is doin that plzzzzzzzzz can sum 1 gave me there ideas y hes like dis

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He's insecure because he feels threatened because you are building a better life for you and your child his mother is supporting you.

You've got direction. Don't let anything or anyone hold you back. The value of a college degree is so , so better tban a hs. He needs to get on board.