I'm trying to find a discreet but effective way to deal with the mother, specifically, of our children's best friend. Whenever they go over to her house, she uses very vugar language. She is a musician and we have known her for a long time, but this seems to be a recent development. It is almost as if she were deliberately pushing us away. Our kids and her son are very academic and love school. My husband is a scientist and they all want to go into the sciences as well:. They have been best friends for 8 years. Confused: :confused: . What should we do?

Well I guess my opinoin is, you don't let your children go to their house, period, unless you don't mind your chlld starting to curse most likely.

As for as talking to the other parent, what another adult does or does not do is really not something that we have a right to say.