My boy friend has a problem with me when I go out with my friends . He feel bad which also makes get angry. Is there any problem of having fun with your friends even of opposite sex? Is it that he cares for me much or he don't trust me.
THANK YOU.

He is jealous that you hang around with the oppesite sex and maybe is a little untrusting.
Trust me I know this my boyfriend is the same he hates me hanging out with my mates especially if they are blokes and yet he hangs around with girls all the time.

Mens minds are confusing!

Have fun with your friends but it seems like he needs reasurring that they are just friends.

You are your own person so don't let him tell you what you can and can't do.

First of all you need to ask yourself " why he don't trust you?" if you feel that way. 2rd do he hit you and if so you don't need to be in the relationship anyway also ask yourself this did you have those friend when you met him, and do he know them, and if it's yes to all then ask him why do he have a problem with you hanging around them? No there isn't a problem with having friend with the opposite sex but, why would you need to hang around those opposite sexes when you have a man at home or vise verse? The thing is you need to look at the big picture if this person make you happy without any physical abuse and verbal abuse and he's not a power freaky and like to have his way all the time then maybe it's better to let some friends aside for awhile sometimes. P.S. Do you and your friends hang out with you and your boyfriend sometimes? And personally I think it's just he really can't trust his self.

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Originally Posted by wanjiru

My boy friend has a problem with me when i go out with my friends . he feel bad which also makes get angry. Is there any problem of having fun with your friends even of opposite sex? Is it that he cares for me much or he dont trust me.
THANK YOU.

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Sometimes this is because of the person being extremely possessive. But you must tell him that having fun with friends means only that much and moreover you need so many people in the world and not just each other. But don't show disrespect to his feelings unless you know it is other than possessiveness. Make him see the reason and if still he refuses to change and it continues to irritate you, the choice is yours. But don't decide any thing in haste. Relationships demand time.