I am a little confused right now, I have been talking to a guy for a month now mostly over the phone, we had only seen each other once. We were trying to get to know each other and decided to go on a date last Saturday. I believe that the date went really well, his compliments were endless and we both were very interested and attracted to each other. We decided to make a second date for Tuesday, but I haven't heard from him since Saturday. I don't know what to make of that. He told me to call him to make sure that I got home OK ( I had to drive 2 hours to go see him) but he didn't answer then either, he was having a celebration with his friends for his promotion, so he was busy and I didn't really expect him to call me back. He's in the navy and his ship sailed yesterday for 3 months. He asked me to email him, and to wait for him. I told him that I would. I've emailed him talking about my concerns and another time catching him up with what I've been doing. There are so many reason to why he might not be answering, he could be busy, his ship could have left early, and the worst one, he might not be interested, but I told him to be honest with me, I would rather he hurt me with the truth than lead me on. There are so few computers on the ship I don't know when he will be able to have a chance to reply. Its been six days since I've heard from him. I am not going to email him anymore, not until I hear a reply at least. How long should I wait before I take his silence as an answer? I really like him but I don't want to show myself as being too clingy but I am afraid that I might be, due to the emails and the phone calls, I don't want to scare him away. I mean I called him only because I won't be able to hear his voice for 3 months. And I emailed him because I couldn't hear his voice. So what should I think? (I'll give him a week or two) How do I undo some of the clinginess that he think I might have?
Thanks for your help :confused: