I am no where near confident about my looks. But it frustrates me because, though it sounds stupid, I don't know how I really look; I will look in a mirror and I will look fine. I will see my picture and I look AWFUL... and I'll look in a different mirror and look good... I WANT TO KNOW IF I'M THE UGLY ONE OR THE OK ONE!! :(

Hey, don't be upset!

I'm sure you look fine. You're just not photogenic! NO BIG DEAL!!

I'm not photogenic either.

Be happy with who you are! ;)

Just stay away from pictures if you hate them that much... This is what I do :p

But you sure don't hate your face. Just blame the pictures!!

Let me tell you a little story, when I was in about the sixth grade there was this girl that I thought was a beauty and I wanted her to be my girlfriend so bad but she would not have anything to do with me because I was not popular and she could get her choice of any guy. There was also this girl that was always bugging me, calling me on the phone,telling others that she was my girlfriend, I hated her because I thought she was ugly. Well I moved away that year to another town, my dad was in the Army and we moved around a lot. My senior of high school we moved back to the town where the two girls were. Well to my surprise the pretty girl looked average to me. The ugly girl was a beauty and was voted best looking girl in school. Now the best part, the girl that likes me then still liked me when I returned and we have been married now for many years.

So don't worry so much about your looks.

I fave very few photos of myself that I feel happy with. My daughter is absolutely the cutest thing in the world and most of her photos are not that great. Neither of us are comfortable in front of the camera and it gets captured on film. Some folks are just more photogenic than others.

Get some make up

Look in the mirror and put on make up and dresses and shoes:) :) :) :cool: :cool: :cool:

How old are you? I used to feel that same way but as I got older everything changed. It usually does. Confidence works wonders... it seriously does. When you get a picture taken, own it! And find the things that you like about your face (eyes? Nose? Lips?) and accentuate it to draw attention to your good attributes. Then, of course, your personality will make you 34829042390 times more beautiful.

Go to a semi high end store like Eaton's or even sears or what ever and ask for some advice, keep trying, and shed a few tears {lol} if you can... Find a nice girl to take you under her wing and I promise you will look even better than you do now. If you follow these instructions carefully you will end up with so many free samples you can save up for all the really nice make up. NEXT: Hair is really hot when it is always taken care of... Its your mane and for a lot of guys is what makes you hot even with mud on your face and walking away. A good straightener is essential, and the rest is I'm sure obvious. Do what you want to do and what you are happy with. I have seen some girls change like the swan with this stuff. It's sad but good that a little money and a little effort can really change things and make you so hot. just ask my X. Oh god do I fu#*ing hate her. LOL HEY! PS don't for get your nails. They are cheap cause you do them yourself and that's always nice to see. Please do not become a snot!

I hate the way I look but everyone says I'm beautiful I think I'm fat but everyone says I'm skinny but not a stick and that they'd kill to have my body its probably hormons that's what my friends say at least

Nice face smile wear dresses and new shoes your not fat maybe they will kill to have your body its not the hormons u look nice

God made us because he thought we were beautiful in his eyes. By saying your ugly is saying that God hates you. God doesn't hate anyone. Not even sinners He loves us all. Don't worry about pictures because they make EVERYONE even the hottest, prettiest girl looks unusual. Believe me, there's probably someone out there who think your HOT! So put your chin up and say to yourself- I'm hot and I now it

:eek: I don't wear make-up and I have had 2 bf's already. :p

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Originally Posted by Ging1994

i hate the way i look but everyone says im beautiful i think im fat but everyone says im skinny but not a stick and that they'd kill to have my body its probably hormons thats what my friends say at least

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When I was a kid I had nothing didn't no what it was like to have nice things or to look nice.. luckly I learnt right from rong never jug a book by its cover. All need it to be what you want,I should have been a boy I was told up until I was 18 then I said to myself I'm my own person I'm going to wear look feel how I want well I put on my high shoes did my make up changed my hair put on my nice dresses, now always make yourself smell nice. With perfum. Head and sholders back walked into my town and then girl since then I never been told I should have been a boy and still to this day I walk into my town my partner he said to me I feel so lucky to walk down the road holding your hand because the men always looking at you and also all ages of girls lades are always say she looks so good. My clothes, shoes, bages, hair, perfum, r all from the local shops and I look and feel fab and I look great if I've got a big heart and great friends I've had cancer 2nd time , but I look good as to what I see in you is great have a go because you got it all and chin up give it a go and get back to me and tell all OK thank you xx

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Originally Posted by bobie

when i was a kid i had nothing didnt no what it was like to have nice things or to look nice.. luckly i learnt right from rong never jug a book by its cover. all need it to be what you want,i should have been a boy i was told up untill i was 18 then i said to my self im my own person im going to wear look feel how i want well i put on my high shoes did my make up changed my hair put on my nice dresses, now always make your self smell nice. with perfum. head and sholders back walked into my town and then girl since then i never been told i should of been a boy and still to this day i walk into my town my partner he said to me i feel so lucky to walk down the road holding your hand cos the men always looking at you and also all ages of girls lades are always say she looks so good. my clothes ,,shoes,, bages ,,hair ,, perfum,, r all from the local shops and i look and feel fab and i look great if iv got a big heart and great freinds iv had cancer 2nd time , but i look good as to what i see in you is great have a go because you got it all and chin up give it a go and get back to me and tell all ok thank you xx

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ps I'm now 45 and love it. And if you think your ugle I must be frankinstin every one thinks that I'm about 32. That the truth,, ;):p:D from bobiexx:)

I'm damn sure u looks fine... dont be upset.