HUMMMMH...
Okay I need advice on some baby mama drama you guys...
I've been dealing with this guy for the last 5 months and I must say that me and hiim went through about a year worht of relationship in that short amount of time...
I came into the relationship knowing that he had a baby mother...
Okay and I dealt with it...
But as time grew on I heard him talking to her in a manor that I didn't like...
Then one day he confronted me talking real crazy... Ashley I'm not the man you need... u need somebody that can treat you better... and I've been lying to you...
Okay basically he lied to me when it came down to him breaking up with his baby mother... he said that they didn't officially break up because he was scared that she was gon get him locked up for child support and bladddy blladddy blah...
So I forgived him took him back what ever...
Once again everything was good I was loving it... and I got to phone call from my best friend somebody that wouldn't lie to me...
She told me that my man has another child on the way by the same girl...
Man Oh man...
THE CONFRONTATION
I asked him...
He came back wit who telling you all this stuff...
Then I asked how far along iz she because I heard she was about three months remember I've been talking to him for about 5-6 months...
So the and he told me that she was 8 months and he just found out...
Ummmm in the back of my mind I'm thinking why would she wait that long to tell him that she was pregnant...
So rite now I 'm like in awe over this situation...
I'm doing my best to do research on the girl to see who is lying...
But do you have any advice
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One child , you can deal with and if he left her fine. But he told you himself that he lied to you and you can do better. Two children with a baby mother is too much. You seriously need to find another man. I know it's hard but this is too much. Women use one kid as a pawn, with two kids she has A lot of bargaining power. This man wants to have his cake and eat it to. He wants a family but then wants a girlfriend. You are a mistress really except that he is not married.

He has already cheated on you going back to the baby's mother then if that's not enough HE GOT HER PREGNANT! Used no protection.

Like I said, if he has left the baby's mother then fine, BUT HE NEVER LEFT. So you are the other woman.

I think Midori32 is absolutely right. Ditch the liar!