Originally Posted by flow_girl
Hey there...
I've been dating this guy for seven months now but the last 3-4 weeks we've been constantly fighting. For the last week we havent spoken. I miss him alot but I can't understand why his acting like this. To him, his angry because I danced with another bloke (who was my best friends cousin whom i've known for 15yrs) and he feels betrayed. That he can't trust me. I do ackonwledge that it was mistake but he wont accept my apologies nor does even want to talk about it. I can understand him feeling hurt but I also didnt hug, hold his hand or kiss that other guy. It was one dance.
If things werent even worse, he then, to 'apparently' get me back, he got some friend of his to phone me up the other night at 11.30 saying she was his 'other' girlfriend and that they had been dating for two months. The next morning, he phoned saying sorry but that i should've known it was just a joke and that he was doing it, to hurt me back.
I dont know what to feel about the situation. Should I try and talk to him about it or leave things be? To me I feel mainly hurt because I dont know how you can make a joke out of somthing like that? At 11.30 when I had been asleep, how was I to know it was a joke. Its disgusting and hurtful. What do I do???
