My boyfriend and I are very close. I Love to Have sex. But it seems that every time I do something goes wrong. Ive had sex with only him. And this has been happening since our 1st time. I Have small Hips, and myboyfriends a bigger guy, it hurts to be on top although I no he loves it. And when on bottom or from behind it always hurts to have sex. I don't know why but every time it hurts to the point of almost crying and I bleed. I have gone to the doctor and she told me I just need to find a diff position where it works for me... It doesn't hurt when I'm on top but it hurts my hips. Every time where in the moment I always ask him to stop cause it hurts, and he's so amazing and always makes me feel better and not gulity but I want to be able to have amazing sex with him. Any Position ideas?

Wikipedia- Sex Positions

Browse that list and see what you think would work with you guys' taste:D

And make sure you have and use proper lubrication.

There normally should not be pain and bleeding in some of the basic standard positions.

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Originally Posted by BigCityDreams007

My boyfriend and i are very close. I Love to Have sex. But it seems that everytime i do something goes wrong. Ive had sex with only him. and this has been happening since our 1st time. I Have small Hips, and myboyfriends a bigger guy, it hurts to be on top although i no he loves it. And when on bottom or from behind it always hurts to have sex. I dont know why but everytime it hurts to the point of almost crying and i bleed. I have gone to the doctor and she told me i just need to find a diff position where it works for me... It doesnt hurt when im on top but it hurts my hips. everytime where in the moment i always ask him to stop cause it hurts, and hes so amazing and always makes me feel better and not gulity but i want to be able to have amazing sex with him. Any Position ideas?

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Try having sex side ways and he is behind u

If you're bleeding during sex you need to see a gyno about it.

I bleed and I have POS and Endo.

That's what I was thinking too

Try lying on your back, and have him on his knees with his back straight... have him hold your legs up from behind the knees, and your ankles should be by his shoulders or over them. I've tried this position with a very heavy guy and it feels nice... all the other positions we tried his belly kept getting in the way :(

I too have very small hips and the laying on the side position always works well for me.