Ask Me Help Desk - I love him

I've loved this boy for years now. We used to be so close and now he seems to have lost interest in me and I don't understand why! I think I have fallen in love with him, its painful to think about him! Sometimes I just can't help but cry. Its distracting me from everything I feel like I can't be happy anymore. I can't reivise for gcses in 2days. I no its real. I'm not confused I truly love him.
I always end up foning him when I'm drunk and it always makes it awkward. He knows I like him and is being really off with me. He used to text me and call me all the time. He used to say he loved me.
I just don't know what to do
If I tell him I know he will be really weird about it and I don't have the courage to tell him. It always seems that he has something better to do than see me. Some better prettier hotter girl to see.
What would you dooo?

If you truly like him, then you should talk to him and see what is going on and see if things could maybe take a turn for the better.

How old are you? How old is he?

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Originally Posted by i need him

iv loved this boy for years now. we used to be so close and now he seems to have lost interest in me and i dont understand why! i think i have fallen in love with him, its painful to think about him! sometimes i just can't help but cry. its distracting me from everything i feel like i can't be happy anymore. i can't reivise for gcses in 2days. i no its real. im not confused i truely love him.
i always end up foning him when im drunk and it always makes it awkward. he knows i like him and is being really off with me. he used to text me and call me all the time. he used to say he loved me.
i just dont know what to do
if i tell him i know he will be really weird about it and i dont have the courage to tell him. it always seems that he has something better to do than see me. some better prettier hotter girl to see.
wot would you dooo?

Yeah you really need to set your ground and get to talking with that boy... he could be having problems... or just really needs space... believe me.. when it comes to marriage.. ladies alwayz have to set their ground with their husbands if not.. things will go out of control... so just don't worry about anything.. your still a teenager honey.. you'll have better things to do than worry about a boy... sometimes I wish I was single so I don't have to deal with boys.. but he is a teenager... he is too young to know what is going on in his life.. what he thinks, what he feels.. he just needs space.. give him a little time.. and he'll come around.. if not.. get to talking...

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Originally Posted by kepi

If you truly like him, then you should talk to him and see what is going on and see if things could maybe take a turn for the better.

How old are you? How old is he?

I used to think that but I can't talk to him! What if he just laughs at me. It would be so awkward. Do you think there is some kind of more subtle way to find out what he thinks. None of my close friends are friendly with him so I can't even find out what he thinks from them!
We hang around with completely different people but I know all his friends.
If he said he didn't like me then everyone would know and it would be so bad

We are both 16 by the way

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Originally Posted by lovelylady1

yeah you really need to set your ground and get to talking with that boy... he could be having problems... or just really needs space... believe me .. when it comes to marriage.. ladies alwayz have to set their ground with their husbands if not.. things will go out of control... so just dont worry about anything.. your still a teenager honey.. you'll have better things to do than worry about a boy... somtimes i wish i was single so i dont have to deal with boys.. but he is a teenager... he is too young to know wat is going on in his life.. wat he thinks, what he feels.. he just needs space.. give him alittle time.. and he'll come around.. if not.. get to talkin...

Thanks I guess that's true! I keep hoping he will grow up and like me! But I don't think it will happen to be honest!

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Originally Posted by i need him

i used to think that but i can't talk to him! what if he just laughs at me. it would be so awkward. do you think there is some kind of more subtle way to find out what he thinks. none of my close friends are friendly with him so i can't even find out what he thinks from them!
we hang around with completely different people but i know all his friends.
if he said he didnt like me then everyone would know and it would be soo bad

we are both 16 btw

Life is about taking risks, dear. I recently took a chance, and, yes, it broke my heart, but the fact is, I stopped crying- yes, it hurt to be told this person "didn't feel the same way about me," but at least I wasn't holding onto something that was not going to go anywhere.

Well.. look.. yeah she's right.. you know.. you fall in love.. and they break your heart.. (not all the time) but yeah. Lifes a risk.. you do what you feel is right.. do what you need to do.. and go on with girl.. you are only... 16... you are too young. Later in the future as you grow you'll learn and find somebody you can talk with.. but why be embarrassed when he laughing at you.. go for it.. stick up for yourself and don't let him put you down.. he's a boy.. if any boy try to put me down.. I'm throwing his down.. show him don't put up with his.. and you need an explanation.. if not.. tell him.. he is so imature and he needs to grow up... and MOVE ON!! There is so much more in life than boys.. boys are just your sanchos (side kickers) whenever you really need them for anything... but it is so much better being single... and if you are really ready to be in a relationship and deal with their.. go for it girl.. but till then.. tell da boy off.. and leave..