My girlfriend and myself , we both enjoy sex to the maximum. We also try various positions. But she finds it very difficult to be on top of me. I really love her riding on top of me. We tried it several times but was not successful. Can anyone help us.

What's not working out. Could you be a bit more specific?

Maybe she's afraid of making you uncomfortable..

I don't really understand too, how does it not work? The way I see it a woman gets on top and away she goes lol.

As a Woman I LOVE the Top. I feel in CONTROL.
But some times it's very uncomfortable because I feel IT way inside and it bugs me. Maybe that's why she doesn't like it. Yours might be above average and it could be painful at times.

Either way we don't know how it's not working if you don't give us a better explanation.

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Hey... woman on top is a very pleasureable position for the girl... then why does your girl have a problem with it? Is it to do with penetrating inside her.. some women find it difficult to get it inside in this position

Sorr Lotz-Of-questions, I used your name when I meant Anette. :o :D

Not to be funny but isn't Anette a females name?? Are you male or female??

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Not to be funny but isn't Anette a females name??? Are you male or female???

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My girlfriend and myself , we both enjoy sex to the maximum. we also try various positions. But she finds it very difficult to be on top of me. I really love her riding on top of me. we tried it several times but was not successfull. can anyone help us.

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Well my friend also has that problem its normal she just has 2 get used 2 it it will take time if she is in pain do not proceed try something else

Maybe she just doesn't like it that way and since she doesn't she's not putting effort into it. Some women have different outlooks on being on top.

Maybe she doesn't know exactly what to do when she's on top. You could try guiding her through it. Take her by the hips and sort of move her - she will learn and may like it. Also, you could try to have her on top but not facing you - she would face your feet. A woman can feel it a lot better that way. I guess it hits a couple of different spots.

I don't like being on top. The only time it feels good or feels right is if we are on the floor, or some other hard surface. It doesn't seem to work when we're on a soft surface (bed).