I don't want to tell my age, but my last period was on march the 15, 2007 and on April the 28 I had sex for the first time.Now it's may and I haven't seen my period yet.We used a condom, and I found out later it broke,I don't know what to do, I don't want to have a baby.im still in denial because [ I'm sorry I had to get graphic on you,but] he says he never ejaculated in me, I don't know what's wrong, and I'm scared please help me.

It doesn't add up to me... you missed a period before you had sex... so judging by that alone, I would say depending on your age (and judging by the way you are reacting Im guessing its young) you could simply be experiencing irregularity. However, anytime you have sex, whether protected or not, you run the risk of pregnancy. My suggestion to you is that you run to the store and buy a home pregnancy test. The cheapys are just as good as the expensive ones in my opinion. If it shows positive. Please seek out a doctor. You need to be on prenatal care. If it shows negative, please see a doctor, because you need to find out what your body is telling you. You have now missed 2 periods (and very close to the due date of the 3rd according to my calculations), if you are on a normal 28 day cycle, and that means something is not normal. The one thing you absolutely must do, is try not to stress out, because it will only cause your body to act more strange. Good luck.

You must calm down. I'm sure it's just irregulairty, like alkalineangel has posted. If you are worried about the possibilities of being pregnant, the best you can do it take a pregancy test and/or go you your doctor.

Best of luck to you.

Thanks to the both of you ladys but its not that simple, I mean you right I may be stressing but this is not unsual, I'm sp scard I can't go to the doctor because I don't have any health care, but I can go buy a test,the only thing is I'm so afarid of what the results may turn out to be,mabe I'm being selfish and beating up myself too much and stressing out way too much but you have to understand I'm so young,I have no money,this is the first time for me ever being in a situation

You are very welcome my dear. You must take a test. But when you do, you might want to pee in a cup to make sure you have enough urnie on the test. Please do not worry though. Stressing is normal in a situation like this.

Yes very normal, but just don't let it ovrewhelm you. We are here to help. And Believe me I understand. I was a young when I had my first child. Believe me there are many options for you. You can go to a planned parenthood first and they will help you at very low to no cost. Then if you are indeed pregnant, and live in the states, there are medical cards available. I was on Passport, and it took care of my medical care until I could find a job with health benefits. If you think you can not care for the child there are options such as adoption and abortion. I would really read up on both options and make a wise decision, both will severely change your life, but keeping your child will as well. I can give you my opinions on each of these, but I will save you the time, ultimately it is your decision, not mine. Just make sure you are well informed before making one. Make sure you are very comfortable with your decision, and make sure you are not persuaded by anyone, it is YOUR decision and no one else's, not even your parents. Before you worry about all that though, go and take a test and see if there is even an issue here. Good luck.

OK I'm trusting the both of you I have officially fell in love with you please contact me sometimes at my e-mail its ***EMAIL REMOVED FOR PRIVACY*** love you

I will be sure to keep in touch with you my dear. Let us know how things turn out.

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Originally Posted by Rockabilly1955mama

You are very welcome my dear. You must take a test. But when you do, you might want to pee in a cup to make sure you have enough urnie on the test. Please do not worry though. Stressing is normal in a situation like this.

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Hey you im back... i kno i haven't been here in a while.. but my period.. actually did come on... i have taken steps to make sure the condom accident doesn't happen again... i am on my p's and q's... i will admit i had sex again... but i assure you im not pregnant... i thnak all you for you time to answer my question... and to help me realize... what i needed to do