Im really into forplay it feels good having someone play/touch/lick you all ova and I love giving as well but when it comes to sex my girl just wants to get straight down to business,any advice for letting her know how much I enjoi it but not pressuring her?

Is the problem that she won't give it, or won't receive it? Maybe you should try to initiate it. One day, just start to touch her where you may not have before. Don't talk about it. Just start it, and see what happens. If she verbally tells you that she wants sex, tell her to wait. Waiting is the fun part.;)

Yes, women usually expect men to take control. I have never, ever, even herd of a woman that didn't like...

It happens-we are all different-concentrate on her feelings for a while-then maybe it might get reciprocated.

Cheers