OK so I was wondering...

How long is making love suppose to last? I hear people say they make love for hours and hours and some just a minute.

I think I have a great sex life but sometimes I think we finish too fast.

What do you all think?

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It is all individual.

Yea, it's totally a personal thing. If you feel that your sex life is great well than that's awsome keep doing what your doing!

Well, when we're drunk it lasts about 3 minutes and when we haven't seen each other for a few days it could last off and on all night. And you know what? Sometimes when we're trying something new and it just isn't working we end it after a minute until we finish laughing it off. I think as long as you both had fun and satisfaction it will take as long as it needs to. And if you plan on being together for a while, there will be times when it finishes before it even starts.

If it floats your boat just be happy with what you have.

I really think it is an individual thing. Talk with each other and see what you guys like. Maybe stop "it" before it happens if you want it to last longer...

It's all you and your spouse.

It varies from person to person.There is no set time limit, just enjoy it and see what happens.
It varies for me, when im tired i dont want a 12 hour sex marathon, some nights a quicky is all that is needed, sometimes it can go on for as long as we want it to, all depends on how you are both feeling.

Thanks all for the great answers!

:)

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Thanks all for the great answers!

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You are very welcome my dear!

The correct duration of lovemaking is the time that the both of you are satified with.

Cheers

Just depends what you are up for.
Some people include the time of foreplay with sex. So say two hours of foreplay then two hours of sex?
Sometimes the man may climax more then once and they may start over again.
Sometimes the woman may climax numerous amounts of times and they may keep going.

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Originally Posted by Lotz_of_Questions

OK so I was wondering...

How long is making love suppose to last? I hear people say they make love for hours and hours and some just a minute.

I think I have a great sex life but sometimes I think we finish too fast.

What do you all think?

:)

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It is different for different people and different at different times for every one. There have been many times when our sex didn't last a minute, that is what we wanted, her bent over the vanity in the bathroom. We , we kiss and we go our separate ways both very happy and satisfied.
Other times we make love for several hours, what you have to understand that I am not in her humping all of this time. We are doing so many different things, kissing, fondling each other, eating or sucking, or fingering each other. At a point that it is just too much to take we f**k and relax and then f**k some more, and eventually we both . We then get out of bed find something to eat, maybe get a bottle of wine or cold duck, and we start over again. We do this maybe three times and in total she may have 8 or 9 orgasms and I might have three or four.
So play around with it and have fun. It does not always have to be a quickie.

We don't make love that long but its amazing. I can't because I dry up fast... and we usually only do it once at a time. It all about the couple.