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When I orgasm he can't feel it.. my boyfriend claims he could feel it with his ex's... does that mean that I'm not tight enough or is it that some women have more intense ones... hes says I'm not loose and I'm perfect... but I can't help but to NOt believe him when he tells me that because why would he be able to feel theirs and not mine?? He told me that he thinks I fake it sometimes just because he can't feel it and he feels bad.. I just want to be better than the other girls were... ya know what I mean? He can feel it with his fingers but not his penis. Is there something wrong with me?? Some people say who cares as long as you gets it... but it matters to me

Well, do you feel it?
I wouldn't be too worried if he's not feeling it, as long as you're feeling it and he's had his own orgasm! :)
I wouldn't be worried about how tight/loose your vaginal entry is.
Obviously you're enjoying sex.
Have you tried kegel exercises, "Squeeze in, squeeze out, squeeze in, squeeze out".
I did these when I was pregnant to prepare myself for birth, and I couldn't have sex for 8 weeks after the birth and I felt like a virgin again when I finally did have sex. It was good though. :) Love those kegels!

I don't know what a female orgasm feels like, but then again I'm a male!!

What does he expect to feel. I can always tell when I make a sexual partner orgasm. I don't necessarily feel anything but I sure as hell know when it happens.

Maybe I'm missing out on somehting but I don't really understand what it is HE should feel when YOU orgasm other than satisfaction.

Oh, and don't bother with comparing yourself with his ex's either. He's with you now and he syasd your perfect just the way you are. Accept that and forget about trying to be better than anyone.

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Maybe I'm missing out on somehting but I don't really understand what it is HE should feel when YOU orgasm other than satisfaction.

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It has a lot to do with circumcised males/non circed males.

Circed males have less feeling when it comes to sex, non circed males have more feeling. (I will add the links to the study).
Mines criced and he says he can feel it though.
It's the tension/tightenings you feel when she says she's orgasming, clenching?
It's like automatic it comes with the prize. Lol