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  • May 28, 2007, 04:48 AM
    airsoccer07
    Is there a such thing as too much?
    OK here is my thing. Seee I'm in iraq and welll there's not much to do here so most of us like to collect porn. OK so like is 700 gb too much to have or it just something to have in iraq till you get home to see your loved one or life partner in the states. And its not like its just me we all think its like this game of who has the most type of thing. OK well let me know??
  • May 28, 2007, 04:55 AM
    wiggitywackiraq
    Well, I guess if your friends are playing games. I'm in iraq too, and we don't play that game, but I know the boredom you must be going through. 700GB is a lot of porn, though. Maybe it wouldn't hurt to cut it down before you settle into a long term relationship. Just remember that making love is far more special and emotionally charging, than just fu**ing like they do in the porns.
  • May 28, 2007, 09:49 AM
    MummaCrash
    As a woman, here's my advice:

    It is better to share what you're playing with then hiding it.

    A lot of women take it as an offence when their parnter 'needs' porn inorder to survive.
    It says a lot about a relationship too.
    Don't just do what the fellas do.
    Do you have a loved one at home?
  • May 28, 2007, 09:56 AM
    thegoodshepherd
    Yeah 700gb is way way way too much. Like jesus what is that like 10 000 000 000 pictures? Jesus christ man. Maybe like 100 gb but 700?. wow
  • May 28, 2007, 09:58 AM
    MummaCrash
    Comment on thegoodshepherd's post
    LOL! Sorry
  • May 28, 2007, 11:17 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Any porn can be too much porn no matter where you are, if it can ruin your relationship with your love one at home. And as in the old days, I though soldiers shared everything they had.
  • May 28, 2007, 01:47 PM
    kepi
    I would advise you to try and cut down on the amount of porn you collect. Porn not only can damage your relationships, but it can also affect the way you see sex and expect things most people might not be able to do.
  • May 31, 2007, 06:46 AM
    MummaCrash
    Quote:

    airsoccer07 agrees: good point, I respect your intuitiveness you seem to have a level head on and can see whqat you mean about making sure its like known about the other partner. I have friends I talk to back home but not married. Why??
    Well you see you're not in a committed relationship so it's really not all that bad.
    :) Have fun!
  • May 31, 2007, 09:46 AM
    kepi
    MummaCrash, even though he's not in a relationship, porn could damage any FUTURE relationships. Porn is addictive, so when he does get into a committed relationship, he'll still want to keep watching/collecting porn, and a lot of people have an issue with porn.
  • May 31, 2007, 07:23 PM
    MummaCrash
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kepi
    MummaCrash, even though he's not in a relationship, porn could damage any FUTURE relationships. Porn is addictive, so when he does get into a committed relationship, he'll still want to keep watching/collecting porn, and a lot of people have an issue with porn.

    Well that's really not for us to finalise.
    He will make his own decisions and at least the possibility of becoming addicted when he is in a relationship has been established.
  • May 31, 2007, 08:52 PM
    kepi
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by MummaCrash
    Well that's really not for us to finalise.
    He will make his own decisions and at least the possibility of becoming addicted when he is in a relationship has been established.

    Agreed.

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