There is a girl in my class, who I really want to start seriously dating. She knows the way that I feel about her, but I can never get a "real" answer from her about the way that she feels about me.. In a recent conversation with her she told me that I seem to afraid to talk to her when we are together. I can't figure out if she is being polite and not trying to hurt me feelings by not telling me that I don't have a chance, or if she really does want to get to know me better and talk more. I don't want to keep pressuring her into giving me an answer because then she seems to get annoyed by me and then I feel worse. What's the best plan for my situation then?

Hi! Glad for you to have a good feeling on that girl. If you like her and want to become good friend with her, please make chances by yourself. You are all students in the same school, so you must have many topics. You could study together for next exams, walk together, and cheat on the test together( I am joking :)
Wish you good luck! Please cherish this feeling.

Well, from the way it sounds... You need to give her more of a reason to reciprocate her feelings to you. Talk to her more, don't be so nervous, and make her feel completely comfortable and alive when you are together. In the beginning of a great relationship the best part of the day is being with your mate, you have to convey that feeling to her. If that doesn't work, you tried, and you take the hint but you got the practice and a free lesson without too much heartache. Good luck my friend

How does she know how you feel? Have you told her or do you assume she knows by the attention you give. I think she is hinting for you to just relax and talk to her. Tell her you enjoy her company and does she mind if you call her or go out.

If you love her tell her

Just a little update... this weekend I went camping and she went down state to visit her dads. She called my cell and left a voice mail because there was no signal where I was at on my phone.. later that night she also sent me 2 texts messages saying that she was bored and wanted to talk to me... today, once she got back into town, I called her up and asked he about her trip and things like that... she really didn't go into much depth about anything I asked about and didn't leave much room for any 'real' conversation. So now I'm wondering why she's the one who was calling me up and then it seemed that she really didn't want to talk to me later on...

Your best bet is to back away from her for a while and see what time brings. Develop a friendship before you start thinking about a serious relationship. Don't ask her if she likes you she will let you know even if she doesn't verbally tell you. The best way to find out if she likes you is to take a step back and see if she comes for you. Don't chase her because if she doesn't like you your just going to get hurt. Its happened to me...

Was she drunk?

Uhh no I don't think so... she sounded sober to me on the voicemail.

You just have to sit her down and talk to her. Don't beat around the bush.

It could be a simple as her not having privacy to talk, or being occupied, don't trip, give it a day or so and call her back. If she is still unresponsive then back off.

Let me tell you how I approach a girl that I barley know this line works greaat, if the girl is intresrted


" I know, i don't know you, but you seem like a girl i'd like to get to know, and i was wondering if i could get your number, or if we could hang out sometime."