Ask Me Help Desk - Arg! What should I do!

... sooo anyway, there's this girl that I really like and we are a year apart. We met around a year ago and we are friends and stuff but I want to be more than friends!! But I have no idea how to tell her how I feel about her. AND another huge problem... she's in a relationship with a close friend of mine! I know what your all thinking (what a backstabber), I've tried to forget her but its really hard, everything reminds me of her. I've tried meeting new people... didn't work. What should I do? Lets say they did break up, would my friend hate me forever if I started dating his ex? Or would he not care since that's his ex... :confused:

And... I'm not sure if this is love or lust or infatuation
I'll describe it...
I love spending time with her, I adore her smile:D and hugs , I love talking with her, and I think she's effing beautiful! I feel really good when I see her or hear her voice. Right now... I woulnt want to be with anyone else except for her. She's the last thing I think of before I go to sleep and the first thing I think of when I wake up. I know.. sounds cheesy!! But seriously, that's how it is... lmfaoo

Some friend you are, and obsessing over something so unavailable is a waste of time, so find something else to focus on, as these fantasies are in your head. That's where they should stay.

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And... I'm not sure if this is love or lust or infatuation

Can't be love since she doesn't know and doesn't return it
Could be lust, definitely could if she is cute and hot!
Probably infatuation and a little lust, as you see her enough to like being around her.

This is lust and cause youcamt have her youwant her more!!

Definitely a backstabber go and meetyour own girls and stop trying to cut your mates out.

A relationship is not built my stealing mates ex!! You should not refer to him as a friend cause if he knew you would do that then your not a friend.

Do you even no what a friend is?? I don't think so. There areamillion girls . You are meant to be happy for your friend and say well done mate she's great. And a true friend if they ever broke up would not keep talking to her you would stick by your friend not date his ex. You sound like a loser and you will end up with no friends andthats what yu deserve idiot!!

Can't you get your own girls... loser