:confused: I desperately seek help, I currently live with my ex (we have our own rooms) we have 2 children together, almost 2 years ago I did him wrong by cheating and lived with another man, about 7 months ago I tried to make it work with my ex again, then we split up again and I left him for the same man from before. I came to realize that this other man had nothing to offer me and I finnally let him go. Since I still live with my ex, I want to try and make it work, not just for us but for my family. I do not know where to start because I don't know how he feels other than betrayed. Is it possible for relationships to work after a situation like this? Please tell me there is hope somewhere! :confused:

Situations like this are tough. But we cannot give you the advice for you to be able to get him back. We can only help.
In a drought, water will soon come. You must give it all you have. In your heart and your mind.

As long as both parties are willing to work things out, then there is always hope

Honestly, focus on your children, and there well being and leave the men alone. Sorry that's too flakey to me, and you didn't learn the first time or the second, so leave all men alone and get yourself together. You don't need to be in a relationship at his time.