There's this guy I work with, when he first started I didn't find him attractive. The more I got to know him though the more attractive he became to me. Only attractive... I didn't like him. I didn't find myself thinking about him outside of work or anything. As time went on we found ourselves making excuses to be in the same room and we went to lunch at the same time. We would sit outside and talk. Anyway that went on for a couple of months and then we kind of moved outside the workplace. We started texting each other, calling, emailing.. etc... one thing led to another and we slept together. Many times! People at work started talking and gossiping about us so I told him that we should probably keep our distance in and outside of work. So for a while we did but it started back up again a few weeks later. He started being distant with me though after that. He didn't talk to me as much, didn't answer my text messages and so on and so forth. I got tired of being treated that way so again... I told him we should keep our distance and only talk about work related topics. He totally stopped talking to me all together. Our jobs require us to communicate with each other but he stopped. He started going to lunch with this other woman... and when I say WOMAN I mean she's 30 years older than him! Yes, it made me jealous! I know first of all I should have never hooked up with a co-worker but it's kind of too late. I know more than likely I don't really like this guy. It's probably just me being jealous because I'm not getting his attention. There's way more to the store but I think you get the point.
My question is... how do I handle this situation in a mature manner? I have been very angry with him and the times we do have talk.. I'm very short and a smartass! I don't want to be that way. I want to handle it the right way considering I didn't do that to begin with and just stay away. Another question... why do you think he's treating me this way? My fault probably but...
