2 months apart and he wants to go away with the boys for Memorial Day weekend
I have been in long distance relationship for 5 months we met before an accident caused me to move back home only 2 hrs away.
I had surgery 2 months ago and couldn't travel for a month or so over the past few weeks when I mentioned coming to visit he had plans going to a game, overtime, a family event. It all checked out he'd call me as soon as he got home. I don't think he's cheating. I think he's absent-minded and immature. I have mentioned breaking up and he opposes. I didn't return his calls for a week and he fell apart. When I called I told him I was confused and I told him let's end it and when I move back and if I'm single we can try then. He said" you don't want to talk to me until you move back."
He is having a hard time adjusting to being a boyfriend. He wants to hang out with his friends- come and go as he pleases, but he still wants to be with me but has realized it takes compromise. I know when I move back things will be much better.
This is for the girls, guys if you read this side effects may be rolling of the eyes:
When we are together he loves all over me. When we talk and I tell him this is what I need from you- he does it. He has this boyish way that I know he is trying but I am losing the patience it takes to see him bloom into the man I need him to be and will spend the rest of my life with.
What do I do? I don't want him to stay home with me and resent me- all I can see is us sitting in his apt by ourselves bored. And I wonder if I should end it now because he's not mature enough for the kind of relationship I want.