My boyfirend thinks I act too much of a boy, which I don't! But that is what he thinks!:mad:
Today he said to me "Why dont you act more like a girl instead of a boy"!

But I think that if he loves me, then he wouldn't care at all what I act like!

So, should I change... or should I stay the way I am?

HELP ME! :confused:

Oh honey, Nobody should force you to change. Least of all someone that says that they love you. He should love you for you, not for the person he wants yo to be. Besides, if you changed would you still be happy... probably not... because that is not who you truly are..

Never change for anyone but yourself.period.

You are perfect just the way you are,
Any one that wants to change you doesn't deserve to be with you
If love is real it has no conditions it just is..

You are who you are. He can except that or not... but he will never be able to change you. He can only make your life and his miserable by trying to do so.

If he truly cares... he will accept you for who you are now and get over it. You will change and grow on your own as you get older.

Take a look at this post it may help you out as well.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ned-94933.html

Be natural. If that is the way you are and you feel happy, then why should you be what you're not... that will take your happiness and naturality away...

No you should not change. NEVER change yourself for someone else, unless your quitting smoking or something. When you change for others, you lose yourself, they take a piece away from your core. If he doesn't understand, he probably isn't the right guy for you.

The next time he says for you to change, give him a list of the things he should change, and agree to get started when he does. Wouldn't you love to see him bald and in a short skirt?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

The next time he says for you to change, give him a list of the things he should change, and agree to get started when he does. Wouldn't you love to see him bald and in a short skirt??

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ROFL OMGLMAO that would be a great thing to do! Love your work Tal! Hahahahaha

You are who you are. Do not change for anybody but yourself. Move on there are other people who will like and love you for who you are. Stay strong. God bless

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Originally Posted by talaniman

The next time he says for you to change, give him a list of the things he should change, and agree to get started when he does. Wouldn't you love to see him bald and in a short skirt??

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Lol.. Tal that's a good one... hope he agrees to change into that...