Okay there is this really cute boy that I like but he is one of my best guy friend. He knows that I like him but I keep telling him I don't because he likes someone else:( :( :( and I know why he does not like me... its because I'm a little over weight. But he is fine b-ing friends. What should I do:eek:

Play it cool... give hints to him that you like him... but play it cool.. stay busy and don't be too available... good luck! :)

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Originally Posted by tawni123

okay there is this really cute boy that i like but he is one of my best guy friend. he knows that i like him but i keep telling him i dont because he likes someone else:( :( :( and i know why he does not like me..................its because im a little over weight. but he is fine b-ing friends. what should i do:eek:

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I no how you fill, I am moving right now because when I started in my school, I had names like "fat cow, Lesbian, and Fatty Mic Fat Fat" I have lost 50 lbs, but I have never had a boyfriend, but I have friends that were boys.. . but yea :/
I had boys that are HOTT come up and ask me if I was a lesbian. NOT GOOD! But I just told them to F*uck off... and then I ended up having 3 guys asking me out. So just be yourself, and if he really does deserve you, then it will work! Good Luck! :)

Over weight! Don't get hung up on that. I tried to lose weight and look all hot for this one guy... about every other guy in the world began noticing me but NOT HIM. It isn't worth it, you can't buid a relationship based on how you look so don't begin it on that. It is all about your personality, either he likes that or not. What's on the inside is sacred and special because you can't change that with surgery!

HOLD UP! I wasn't saying it like that... I no how you fill. And I'm sorry that you took it wrong. What I was trying to say is that you can't make him like you, and if he can't see that you're a good person, then maybe it isn't meant to be. I'm sorry you took that the wrong way. I agree with you 110%.
Sorry!
Good Luck

Peace

I wouldn't jump right in into improving your appearance in hopes of coming off appealing to him. Odds are his mind is set and his opinion won't change on you. As many others have stated on here already, I think you need to focus on other things and let things fall into place as they usually end up doing.

Just look at it this way, would you really want to be with someone who doesn't like you for who you are right now? He's being shallow and superficial and he'll always have that black cloud over his head when it comes to you. Don't even bother.

Communication is key. ;)

If he doesn't like you for who you are he is not worth it! Odds are you guys are just destined to be friends