Have any of you guys noticed any changes in your penises over the years? I have noticed changes in my husbands over the past few months and was just curious in other men. Like how soon you can get an erection, stiffness, etc?? I hope it has nothing to do with him wanting me.

It has a lot to do with excitement, stimulation and how long its been since he got off last. It will vary a good deal based on stress etc.

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Originally Posted by Stac33

Have any of you guys noticed any changes in your penises over the years? I have noticed changes in my husbands over the past few months and was just curious in other men. Like how soon you can get an erection, stiffness, etc??? I hope it has nothing to do with him wanting me.

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I seriously doubt it has anything to do with him wanting you.
You should talk to him about it. Perhaps his stress level has changed recently, or maybe he has been more physically tired lately.
You are a wonderful wife for wanting to know.

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Originally Posted by iupetre

I seriously doubt it has anything to do with him wanting you.
You should talk to him about it. Perhaps his stress level has changed recently, or maybe he has been more physically tired lately.
You are a wonderful wife for wanting to know.

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I am just concerned. Our sex life is a HUGE deal to me (and him) and I don't want anything to affect it. He's only 34 so I wonder why this is going on at such a young age. You don't think it is the starting of ED do you?

ED can happen even temporarily to a 27-year-old like myself.
One day I masturbated in the morning and biked 20 miles in the afternoon. That evening my fiancé wanted to have sex. I got it up and going, but I couldn't sustain it.
Other physical causes:
Diet, stress, other ailments, injury, lack of exercise
ED caused by age... might be possible. He'd have to see his doctor for sure. I'd really hate for him to be taking pills.

Psychological causes:
Emotional stress (death in the family), cheating (I hate to say it, but it is a possible cause. If you guys are talking about this openly, I doubt this is the cause.), depression

Yeah sex is a huge deal in my relationship. In fact, it's kind of a security blanket for me sometimes. Most of my past relationships have ended when the girl leaving me for another man who she has been cheating with. So, when I'm having sex, I feel secure, because I know she is focused on me. In my own reasoning, I know she wouldn't cheat on me, but the sex is comforting.

I will answer this as fast as I can Stac, just as soon as she returns it back to me, I promise. No serioulsy I know for me personaly, when I was a teenager I could jump off the second story roof of the house into the pool and ready be to do it again. At my age now if I looked at the components to ingage such crazy ideas I hurt in the next 4 mornings. Simply put I don't bounce back as I did when I was younger. The other thing I have experienced is my little friend can on his own decide he has had enough when he is tired not when I am tired. I personaly think my situation is a result of rutine adult experiances. If for some reason there were added spices to the salad mix rather than iceburg lettace all the time for dinner, my mouth might watter longer.

Ok, I am sure I'm the exception (according to my wife and her friends comments) but I'll be 57 in a month and have no difference since I was 18. And I mean that in a 'instant erection and hard as a rock for as long as necessary' kind of way. It has got to be genetics, luck, and a perfectly working little valve thing inside that controls the blood flow. I'm not bragging, I know I'm blessed in that department.

I'm a woman, so maybe I can't answer, but I can give my obsevation.
I notice the same with my man now and again. It can happen if he is tired with working all the time, if he is overly hungry, has things on his mind, money problems, basically things happen in life that affect other things in life.
When he is stress free he goes to his usual self. I wouldn't worry about it at all.