Should I keep my mouth shut?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I'm somewhat friends w/his ex-wife also. I actually had known her before I started dating her ex-husband. He's never liked the fact that we talk, but he says as long as he's kept out of any conversation we have, to keep him out of it. (which is fine). I never discuss w/her my relationship w/him! Anyway, she called me this past weekend and told me that her boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes. But, she asked me not to say anything to her ex-husband just yet. I told her I was happy for her. I told her I wouldn't say anything because that is strictly between the two of them. I guess she's not planning on telling anybody other than her closest friends at least until fall. They also have a 7 yr old and she's not telling him either. I feel really guilty knowing this secret that I have to keep from my boyfriend (her ex). But on the other hand, I don't want to betray her. Also I feel like she'll tell him when she's ready. Should I say anything, or keep my mouth shut? I told her once she does tell him, she cannot lead on like I knew anything about it. What should I do?? :confused: