My boyfriend found me on a bed with his friend beside me I explained his friend pushed me,which he did, and how I told him I wasn't interested, however my boyfriend after almost a week of me trying to get him back keeps telling me he won't take me back... I need him and love him please help I don't know what else to do... please please help me! If you want to find out more just ask I'll let you know I just need advice!:confused:

My advice is to back off. You begging and acting desperate to want him back, guess what it is doing is pushing him farther away. No one likes the acts of desperate person.

My advice is does not matter how bad you want him back, he decided he does not want you back and that was his decision. Now you need to except it is over and move on.

It seems that you are going to go through life begging him to trust you. Let him be. You are better off without him.

Let hin go

Do you really want a guy who won't listen to you and has hissy fits?

I do understand OK nothing happened and it is very unfair that he does not believe you however as already said the one sure way not to get him back is to continue hassling him, just let him be. He may realise what an idiot he is been. Ask yourself do you really want to be with a guy who does not trust you because I wouldn't and that is not love anyway.

If nothing happened -- Nothing happened. You've already explained it to him. Let it go and give him some time to deal with it. If he doesn't come around... he really wasn't worth it anyway.

YES WHAT else could you do just back off give him his space and time to think, he might relise you were telling the truth after all

Some ones have the strong belief in what they see more than what they hear, so, can't blame on him 100%, just leave him time to figure it out. I bet he might ask his friend about what happened.

BUT I have a question for you::: HOw can that scene ( I mean the scene you with a guy) can happen?? Sorry for being honest, but if it was me, I would fight back or do something so that if other people see it then they could easily understand that that bastard pushed me. I would not let myself lay down quietly. You know, he pushed you, if you weren't interested then you could stand up and be strong. If I was your boyfriend I would question you why didn't you fight back and wondering about it.

Anyway, let him figure it out!

Thanks for everyone's advice and I have backed off and he has started contacting me nearly everyday. I know it doesn't sound too great but I was so so drunk I could barely stand myself. I also found out that the fella who did this spoke to my dad about it all and told him to make sure that me and my now ex boyfriend knew it was his fault and he took advantage of me while my fella wasn't there. I've still got hope of us being together but not much, but I'll keep trying for a while yet!

Leave him be. If he is overreating over this, imagine the long run. It seems like there is no trust in that part of the relationship.
And I'm glad to hear you have since backed off. And to know that he has started contacting you everyday, shows that he does miss you and he might even want you back. And please, be careful when you're drunk.

He may be an idiot, but you are no better being so drunk as you can be taken advantage of by so called friends. Your whole life style, and the people in it, need to be changed, ASAP.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

He may be an idiot, but you are no better being so drunk as you can be taken advantage of by so called friends. Your whole life style, and the people in it, need to be changed, ASAP.

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