Hello,
I need some advice I was dating a man who was 43 and I was 38 at the time, I met him at work he was my manager. The first thing I thought was strange was he didn't want any-
One to know we were dating We really connected and I feel in love with him and I thought the feeling was mutual. When we were not getting a long one night he asked me If I wanted to go out to dinner with him and his son and his sons girlfriend so we did, when the waitress came up to the table she said hi my name is... and he said hi my name is Bill and totally starting flirting with her in front of me the whole night I was so embarrassed I wanted to crawl under the table then when when we left he said oh look she left me her phone # needless to say I broke up with him he would always call me names like champ and sport and kid never sweetheart or honey Did I do the right thing I just have never been in love like that before and have never connected with someone like that before I need some advice.

Yes my dear, you did the right thing. You don't need a man like that in your life.

You sure did!

Your boss not wanting anyone to know you two were dating should have been your first clue. Are there policies within your company that a manager is not to get involved with their subordinates? His involvement with you could fall under sexual harassment.