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Hi,
5 month ago I split up from my boyfriend of 3 years, he is also my neighbour which makes things harder as I see him eeryday, I started dating a gut 1 week after I broke up with my ex, my new boyfriend has said he loves me, I just can't seem to move on, I cry when I think about my ex, as I know I'm hurting him becase he is still mad about me and loves me, what should I do??

Xxx

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Make a decision. These things are the kind of decisions you must make and then not look back. Figure out who you want and straighten things out.

You don't need to be in a relationship beyond friends right now if you still have feelings for your ex. That's not fair to your new boyfriend. You need to give yourself more time before getting involved with someone else. . Why did you and your ex break up in the first place? If you don't mind me asking

This is so messed up. You should leave them both alone until you can make up your mind as you are so mixed up.

Yeah, I agree with everyone else. If it did not work out with your ex though, chances are it will not work out again. Look forward, let the past die and be open to the future. Good Luck!

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Originally Posted by x_Mysterious_x

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hi,
5 month ago i split up from my boyfriend of 3 years, he is also my neighbour which makes things harder as i see him eeryday, i started dating a gut 1 week after i broke up with my ex, my new boyfriend has sed he loves me, i just can't seem to move on, i cry when i think about my ex, as i know im hurting him becase he is still mad about me and loves me, what should i do??????

xxx

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It's quite fast to have moved into a new relationship of 3 years...
Could it be that you are not yet healed from that one...

By the sound of it you are carrying some old pain with you in this relationship..

Please give us more detail on this story who broke up with who and what was the reasons and was there any cvhjeating or bad things in the relationshipo this we must know before assesing your situation. Provide a detailed description because you must have one after 3 years.

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Originally Posted by Sunshine2

Yeah, I agree with everyone else. If it did not work out with your ex though, chances are it will not work out again. Look forward, let the past die and be open to the future. Good Luck!

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Yes very true sometimes you just have to move on. Place value in your own happiness.

Why did you move on and then think it would hurt your ex? Do you want to go back eventually? Why didn't you give yourself sometime to get over each other? Why did you break up in the first place? Couldn't it be resolved?

You say you can't seem to move on... well why are you moving on then??