Getting back full security deposit
I live in Kansas and am having a problem getting my landlord to cooperate. She first began by saying I never paid a deposit. I gave her the exact month and check number which I did. On ALL of my checks for rent and the deposit, I have indicated the month on the memo line. Our lease began in July but a lease agreement was never signed. I paid in September $150 for a deposit. I knew I had to pay one and had the money at the time. When signing the lease, I noticed I was to only pay $166.67. I mentioned this to the landlord and she said we would square up later since it was my deposit and didn't want to mess it up. She is now saying that she took that $150 to be an extra month's rent instead of the deposit. If that were the case, she never called me to say I've paid too much in rent. Our lease is coming up this year and we are moving out this weekend. I have given her 30 days plenty of notice of the June 15th lease end date. She has claimed that I never paid the deposit, even though she looked at the check that I gave her saying "deposit and September rent". She has tried in several ways of saying "i never paid a deposit." I have all of my checks with the month written in the memo portion. My main question is this. Since I have lived there I have never called or had any problems with her. This was my first time renting and didn't know much about it. I knew there was a lease and guidelines and such but have never had a problem. She has usually given each past tenant their FULL deposit back even though she has not inspected the house for over 4 years, maybe more. She did not do a walk-through with me or the last tenant that moved out. The last tenant never swept the carpets, shampooed them or any other part of the house. I live with 2 other roommates that were there before I moved in. I am engaged to one of them and she is now saying we are a package deal and that any changes affect us both, not just our individual portion of rent or deposit. She doesn't ever call me concerning my portion of the deposit, she always calls my fiancé which he says to call me. She is finally coming to inspect the house after we move out this weekend. She is coming on Monday. I am cleaning the entire house and shampooing the entire house as instructed by her. My question (since I've been explaining more) is "Can I get my full deposit back?" The lease says no sticky stuff on the walls, nails, screws, and not to fix these things if they are there. I have not done anything to damage the house since I have lived there. There was, prior to my moving in, damage like holes in the walls, nails, and screws from past tenants. But since she has not inspected the house before, can I be held liable for the previous damage? I did not think or know to make sure she inspects it or write any damage down before as this was my first time renting. Help!