OK so here's the thing. I I have gym class with this really hot girl but I never met her before. I really wanted to talk to her, but I kept getting scared. So about 2 days ago I finally had the nerve to talk to her and I just totally screwed it up. I couldn't think about saying anything and I kept studdering and all that stuff. And now I'm like really embarassd about it when I see her and I can't even make eye contact with her at all anymore. I don't know if I should leave it be or try to talk to her again. Advice please?

Try talk to her somewhere where you feel confident and where there's lots of other people around(More people More power to not embarrass yourself)But for the love of all things Smelly DO NOT ASK HER OUT WHEN YOU FIRST SEE HER! Just have a casual conversation(Politics,Games,music etc)And if she is interested in what your interested in and if she enjoys what you enjoy then MAYBE ask her out it just depends on when your ready.

Dang boy you got it bad try and talk wit her away from all yalls homies

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Originally Posted by fenderstrummer28

ok so heres the thing. I i have gym class with this really hot girl but i never met her before. I really wanted to talk to her, but i kept getting scared. so about 2 days ago i finally had the nerve to talk to her and i just totally screwed it up. i couldnt think about saying anything and i kept studdering and all that stuff. and now im like really embarassd about it when i see her and i can't even make eye contact with her at all anymore. i dont kno if i should leave it be or try to talk to her again. advice please?

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Girls like guys with confidence, and who are able to speak their mind (in my opinion). You should just go up and start a conversation, without looking all scared. Bring up music or a movie that you recently saw or heard of. This way, if she is interested, she'll be impressed, but if not, you could also look like you just want to be friends.

Dude, you got to be confident the next time you see her. Make up an excuse, say you weren't feeling well or something. Just go for small talk about something you both can relate with. Get to know her and then make your move

This was asked in 2007 - I'm sure it's resolved by now.