My ex boyfriend broke up with again. We have been together for 6 years. This has been about the 3rd time he said he was breaking up with me and each time it's over nothing. He won't call for a couple of weeks then he starts calling again like nothing ever happened.
I'm beginning to question myself why I really love this guy. He's 24 years my senior. I'm still kind of young, have a lot going for me, smart and still attractive so I don't know why I put up with this foolishness. I'm angry with myself because I love him so much and let him get away with this. I put up with a lot of his faults but the least little thing I do, he says it's over. Sad thing is I'm really hurting right now. I don't know why I'm pining over a 65 year old man. Dealing with him is the only area where my judgement is impaired.
He started calling me again as always even though he said it was over. We were talking pretty good. One Saturday morning he called me in a good mood and said he would call me back later. When he called back, I wasn't available to take the call. When I returned his call, he claimed that he push the wrong button that he didn't want anything. Then he started acting funny again and stopped calling. I got the feeling he didn't like that I didn't pick up the phone because I'm usually available to answer his calls. A couple of days later he calls again. He invited me to come to his place. We went out shopping for something I had mentioned I needed. He bought it for me. He even told me he may come and see me even though he says it was over. He lives about 50 miles from me. When that Saturday came, I didn't hear from him. Yesterday he called me twice and he said he would call me back. Today I haven't heard from him. When we were together he called me everyday 2 or 3 times.
Is he still interested? I'm a very wise woman but when it comes to him, I loose myself for some reason. What's the deal here?