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  • Apr 25, 2005, 05:12 AM
    jonmich
    Hello ***-problem
    I have a relationship for 2years, but I know another beautiful girl.
    I know that she wants to has sex with me but I don't know what to do.
    She is beautiful and sometimes I think about how it would be with her but what should I do?
  • Apr 26, 2005, 05:44 AM
    casers
    First you need to ask yourself if you really want to take that risk of losing your girlfriend now, just because some girl wants to give you some. Do you love this girl you are with now? Well if you do then having sex with this other girl shouldn't even be crossing your mind. You need to just sit yourself down and actually think about what you want. ;)
  • Apr 26, 2005, 04:03 PM
    keenu
    It's YOUR life
    You can do anything YOU want to do.
    But remember that you must take the responsibility if you don't like what happens later.
    Patty
    Live your life for yourself and no one else.
  • May 22, 2005, 10:16 PM
    JimGunther
    Your life
    Actually, you must take responsibility for you actions whether you like what happens later or not. If you have sex with someone just for the fun of it you may hurt someone else who in the long run may have been the one for you. It sounds great to say things like, "Live your life for yourself and no one else," but people who don't take into account the feelings and wishes of those around them usually end up alone.
  • May 23, 2005, 02:06 AM
    Dreamer
    Hey jonmich,

    Ok, here is a question to ask yourself: If you really were happy in this relationship -- would the thought of having sex with another girl even cross your mind? I don't know about you, but it wouldn't mine. Are you sure that being in this relationship is where you need to be? It sounds to me like you need to rethink what you're doing here.

    It is not OK to hurt someone else by sleeping around. Believe me, what goes around comes around, and someone will find out sooner or later. Is that what you want? If not, then get out of the relationship and then follow up with this other girl if you want. But please, respect this girl in your life enough to end this relationship first.

    If you love this girl you're with, then stay with her. But staying committed is the most important... not just you being with her.

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