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  • May 14, 2007, 06:30 PM
    funbun16
    How do I confess
    OK, me and my girlfriend been together for two years,during our relationship I got a girl pregnant. I didn't no about the pregnancy until 7th month. How do I confess to my girlfrind?
  • May 14, 2007, 06:32 PM
    gypsy456
    You just tell her.
  • May 14, 2007, 07:04 PM
    diya
    Admitting is better than keeping someone in the dark.
  • May 14, 2007, 07:58 PM
    funbun16
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by gypsy456
    you just tell her.

    I really love her I don't want to loose her
  • May 14, 2007, 08:14 PM
    gypsy456
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by funbun16
    i really love her i dont want to loose her


    Understandable.
    However, you slept with somebody else.
    That's not how you treat the woman you love.

    You have to face the consequences of your actions.
    And that's not easy.
    Especially not in this case.

    But not telling her and her finding out will only make matters worse...


    Good luck !
  • May 14, 2007, 08:31 PM
    funbun16
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by gypsy456
    Understandable.
    However, you slept with somebody else.
    That's not how you treat the woman you love.

    You have to face the consequences of your actions.
    And that's not easy.
    Especially not in this case.

    But not telling her and her finding out will only make matters worse....


    Good luck !

    But it happen while while we were broken for 2 days after she cheated onn me
  • May 14, 2007, 08:35 PM
    funbun16
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by funbun16
    but it happen while while we was broken for 2 days after she cheated onn me

    Thank you very much I well
  • May 14, 2007, 08:35 PM
    whiteladybug2002
    I don't know what to tell you except... TELL HER!! I truly feel for your girlfriend! This will be really hard for anyone to get over, but if it is meant to be then it will all work out!

    Good Luck and God Loves You!
  • May 14, 2007, 08:49 PM
    LuvMyMaltipoo
    You just have to tell her. It doesn't matter how you say it, you're going to get the same results. And it's probably a lot better if you tell her ASAP because I think if you keep it from her too long it will be worse.

    I understand you do not want to lose her but you did mess up. If you really loved her, you wouldn't have slept with someone else. You two were broken up for 2 days... you shouldn't have been sleeping with another girl in 2 DAYS if you loved her so much.

    I'm sorry... I'm being a little harsh, I do not know YOUR situation but I've been in your girlfriends place before (minus the part where she cheated on you) and honestly I never gave the guy a second chance.

    But I will say this... TELL HER, tell her now! Don't let her find out you've been keeping it from her. And do not try and justify yourself when you tell her, trust me... it makes things 10 times worse.

    GOOD LUCK!
  • May 14, 2007, 09:14 PM
    talaniman
    Telling her asap is the best way to go. You sure don't want her to find out from someone else. Tell her and be ready to pay the consequences, whatever they are. Seems you and her do a lot of cheating on each other. That can't be good for a honest, healthy relationship. Hope your ready to be a good dad.
  • May 16, 2007, 05:12 AM
    mckenzie134
    She cheated on you that's going to be a shi t relationship now and this is just as bad although you were broken up. Lo of drama here. Doesn't look good if you tell her I think she will leave you!

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