My boyfriend just broke up with me because I was snooping on his cell phone behind his back. This is the second time I've done it and he gave me another chance before. But I really don't want to lose him forever. We were REALLY good together I just have confidence issues, when it comes to him he's very secretive... he doesn't talk a whole lot about his past or anything so it made me suspicious, but I want him back.. what should I do?

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but I want him back.. what should I do?

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Nothing you can do unless he wants you back. Honestly why would he, so you can snoop some more? Work on yourself before you end up doing this again with the same results, you get dumped.

I have an agreement with my hubby that he is welcome to rummage through my purse, check my cell, e-mails, and I can do the same with him (excluding the purse, he uses a clutch, LOL), but we know that we each have nothing to hide, so do you know what happens? After a while neither of us cared anymore about checking out the other persons things. We trust each other, and give no reason to doubt our love. THAT is the kind of relationship you should be in so that you don't feel the other person is "secrative", and you communicate well, and therefore will feel truly secure and won't feel the need to "snoop". Hope this helps. Blessings.