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  • May 13, 2007, 06:57 PM
    t1fighter1
    Getting her back. She's my angel
    OK, so me and my girl friend have been going out for 3 months. Everything was going fine, and then she started getting distant. Well when I confronted her about this she said she needed a little time, and that we should not be together. I was like OK, I can do that. We talked for awhile and everything fine. We worked together next day and it was really like nothing changed... all the same. I didn't try anything though kept it all cool. Talked to her after work. All good. The following day we went to the gym together, still I didn't try anything. I want to respect her. All went well. (just trying to show we still are very comftorable around each other). Work came around again. Talked more and I went over to her place after work. We watched the most romantic of movies, 007 casino royale! Haha. Again still not trying anything. I didn't try and get up close or anything. Finally after the movie ended she wanted to show me some pics. When she came back with them I slipped my arm around her as she sat down.there was no problem at all. She was perfectly comftorable with this. After I looked at the pics with her we decided to part ways. We were walking out to our cars, and she gave me this big hug. Felt wonderful. I still didn't do anything. I walked her to her car. Then started to walk to mine. She started to drive past me, and she got by me she waved, I made a signal for her to stop. She did, I walked around to her window, leaned in and gave her a small kiss on the lips. And walked away with out saying nethin. She waited a sec then drove off. About 5 min later she called me and asked what that was about. I acted goofy and said I don't know. I could tell she was smiling. "wut are you smiling about' I asked. In a comedic mock she said I don't know. I played the confidence card and said you no u still like me. She said so! I changed the subject after that and talked for 1 or 2 more min and ended for night. What should my next move be to get her back? She means the world to me. I am open to any suggestions.
  • May 14, 2007, 06:37 PM
    burstbubble
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by t1fighter1
    ok, so me and my girl friend have been goin out for 3 months. Everything was goin fine, and then she started getting distant. Well when i confronted her about this she said she needed a little time, and that we should not be together. I was like ok, i can do that. We talked for awhile and everything fine. We worked together next day and it was really like nothin changed...all the same. i didnt try anything though kept it all cool. talked to her after work. all good. the following day we went to the gym together, still i didnt try anything. i want to respect her. all went well. (just tryin to show we still are very comftorable around each other). Work came around again. talked more and i went over to her place after work. we watched the most romantic of movies, 007 casino royale! haha. again still not trying anything. i didnt try and get up close or anything. finally after the movie ended she wanted to show me some pics. when she came back with them i slipped my arm around her as she sat down.there was no problem at all. she was perfectly comftorable with this. after i looked at the pics with her we decided to part ways. we were walkin out to our cars, and she gave me this big hug. felt wonderful. i still didnt do anything. i walked her to her car. then started to walk to mine. she started to drive past me, and she got by me she waved, i made a signal for her to stop. she did, i walked around to her window, leaned in and gave her a small kiss on the lips. and walked away with out sayin nethin. she waited a sec then drove off. about 5 min later she called me and asked wut that was about. i acted goofy and said idk. i could tell she was smilin. "wut r u smilin about' i asked. in a comedic mock she said idk. i played the confidence card and said u no u still like me. she said so! i changed the subject after that and talked for 1 or 2 more min and ended for night. What should my next move be to get her back?. she means the world to me. i am open to any suggestions.
    Aww that's sweet keep it slow she obv felt chemistry between you. Maybe she needed to realise how she felt for you with some time apart for a day or two. Take it slow keep the goofy flirty thing goinf for a couple of days to keep the chemistry going and show her what she's missing. Then let her suggest a drink or date or something I'm sure she will. If not you invite her but don't scare her off and if she still remains made up that you should remain just riends respect it although in this case shouldn't be stringing you along.
  • May 16, 2007, 01:32 PM
    heartbreaker07
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by t1fighter1
    ok, so me and my girl friend have been goin out for 3 months. Everything was goin fine, and then she started getting distant. Well when i confronted her about this she said she needed a little time, and that we should not be together. I was like ok, i can do that. We talked for awhile and everything fine. We worked together next day and it was really like nothin changed...all the same. i didnt try anything though kept it all cool. talked to her after work. all good. the following day we went to the gym together, still i didnt try anything. i want to respect her. all went well. (just tryin to show we still are very comftorable around each other). Work came around again. talked more and i went over to her place after work. we watched the most romantic of movies, 007 casino royale! haha. again still not trying anything. i didnt try and get up close or anything. finally after the movie ended she wanted to show me some pics. when she came back with them i slipped my arm around her as she sat down.there was no problem at all. she was perfectly comftorable with this. after i looked at the pics with her we decided to part ways. we were walkin out to our cars, and she gave me this big hug. felt wonderful. i still didnt do anything. i walked her to her car. then started to walk to mine. she started to drive past me, and she got by me she waved, i made a signal for her to stop. she did, i walked around to her window, leaned in and gave her a small kiss on the lips. and walked away with out sayin nethin. she waited a sec then drove off. about 5 min later she called me and asked wut that was about. i acted goofy and said idk. i could tell she was smilin. "wut r u smilin about' i asked. in a comedic mock she said idk. i played the confidence card and said u no u still like me. she said so! i changed the subject after that and talked for 1 or 2 more min and ended for night. What should my next move be to get her back?. she means the world to me. i am open to any suggestions.
    Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh that is so cuteeeeeeeeeeeeee, yeah u should, both you guys like each other so don't waste no time

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