K, so my ex and I have been friends for a long time now, and both of us have realized that we still have feelings for each other, but I have already taken her back once more before this. I think that she has a sort of routine that she goes though, and I don’t even know if she knows what she wants anymore. But every time I talk to her I get the feeling like there is some unfinished business between us, and I know she feels the same because we are like best friends, and we talk about everything with absolutely no problem at all, including this. I have told her that I wasn’t sure if I wanted to see if things would work out again, and no matter how much I wanted to, I would try to stay out of things with her until I was sue that it was what I really wanted to do. I said that the only way I would really be “ok” and conscience free about going out with her again was if she could get 3 of my best friends to tell me that it is a good idea, I did this because I trust that my friends can make a better choice than I can. I also told her that I thought we both needed some time. She and I talk a lot about how much we miss being with each other, but I still don’t feel right about it. Her friends even tried to convince her that it would be a good idea to be, friends with benefits. Not sexual stuff because I’m not into all that, but just to get the feelings out of our system. I really don’t think that is a good idea, mostly because I think that is a really low thing to do. But I’m starting to get really frustrated with things, my urges tell me to go ahead, but I don’t want to catch myself from doing anything that I regret. Help!!
P.S.(Sorry for it being so long, I know I ramble a lot).
