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There is this guy that is in my one of classes and he also plays around and asks me if I like him, but the thing is I kind of do but I cannt tell him, because he doesn't really like me, I think. But I just don't understand how people can be such jerks, and hurt people that they don't know if the person that they are trying to mess with actually likes them or not.:confused:
I think that this guy is playing with you... well pretty much it depends how he is... if that is how he starts by asking you if you like him then that's maybe the first step to this relationship... but some people for them it feels good to know that there are people out there who likes you and be all big head about it... just be careful he might be one of those jerks who just see how many girls he can get.
He maybe but you know what I still don't know what to think. And even if he wasn't I wouldn't know what to say.
I don't know what type of person he is. You know better. But you you find my answer here appropriate, go for it...
You should play around and if you want, joke that you like him and say that you know he likes you too. But, I don't know if you have the guts to get this type 'game' on.
He's quite playing with you, obviously. Why not respond the same way? He's not serious, you shouldn't be serious either. Try to conceal the fact that you might like him for now. You need to find out what he's all about and that 'game' I just mentionned might help you and he might also be surprised actually. In the meanwhile, you might even find out if you really like him or just a little bit.
No I am not going to do that to him because that is not right, I don't care if he likes me oor not. He coolto tlk to, but he gets annoying, and I am not going to hurt him just because I like him. And I don't no if he likes me..!.Quote:
Originally Posted by kristynn
Well, I'll make myself clear. I've only gave you an idea which was not at all intended for you to HURT him in any way.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chica19
I was just saying that you should respond in a playful way and be confident, just the way he's with you. If done the right way, I am sure he won't dislike it! Acutually, he might even like it.. a lot!
But that's fine if you have no intention to get this kind of 'game' on. I understand it might not be 100% appropriate, but I don't have any better idea.
And by the way, I don't see any way in which YOU could hurt HIM. Being playful and confident has never hurt anyone. No bad intention.
Don't worry about it, if it happens then it happens. Just play around and flirt. If he asks you if you like him, just be sarcastic, "oh yeah you're the love of my life psh." People are jerks about relationships because, I'm assuming you're in high school, cause it's high school, who cares? It's not like you're going to marry him
!! NO BAD INTENTION!! And there is a way that I could hurt him. Like if I play the "game" as you say hell think I am being true to him, and that's how I can hurt him, and he already knows that I am not lke that. And he will know that I am trying to hurt him and that's not what I want to do.Quote:
Originally Posted by kristynn
Yah I know but like if I do that then it will kind of be weird for the both of use. Because like if he does like me then I don't want to joke around with him because I might like him kind of to.Quote:
Originally Posted by rockerchick_682
You're 16. Believe me, no guy wants "love" when they're 16 and if you find one that's a miracle. Seriously, just flirt and play around, he won't be hurt cause he'll know you're playing around, if he asks, "no really, do you like me?" then tell him
Exactly! It's not like... :p "hey, I love you! Wanna marry me?" and be serious about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by rockerchick_682
Trust me that, if you like him, whatever you'll do or say won't HURT him.
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Originally Posted by kristynn
But like if I were to say something to him it wouldn't come out rigth, and I don't wait it to be weird tlking to him and then like after that it going to be like I don't knoe just so weird. Because like I have only known him for atlest an year or to.
You say you like him.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chica19
He says he likes you.
You don't know if he likes you.
Conclusion: Tell him you like him back, and if he really does like you then you can start the relationship. If he doesn't really like you then what's he going to do? Seriously what is he going to do. "HEY EVERYBODY THIS GIRL LIKES ME."... no.
Take it from me I've been in this situation, and I made the mistake. Tell him you like him if that is how you feel because the day will come where guilt and shame will rip a hole in your heart because you were too afraid and weak to just say or ask.
If you do have a relationship, and want further advice your welcome to ask for it. Lots of older members with live experience with this stuff.
You could always try playing it safe AND flirting - if he asks you again, "do you like me?" you could smile and say "why do you always ask me that?" and he might say he likes you, who knows?
The people above actually have the right idea, it's just that you're not quite imagining it as we are. He is flirting, so you could flirt back, it's all about being confident and smiling. Keep it playful hun. Good luck with this one. :)
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