My fiancé and I have been together for 3 years this September. We, as every relationship does, have our normal fights. I used to cry when we fought and he would leave but now I don't. I love him with all of my heart and I never want us to be apart but I don't know why I don't cry anymore. Does anyone have any ideas on why I have stopped crying?

You've gotten used to it and each one of us adapts to reactive modes that our body presents before us... I am glad you've stopped crying because as it is crying makes you look vulnerable and people manipulate that situation a lot So good for you and be strong...

You have stopped crying because your imune to the hurt. Your body took over and made it so that your tears won't fall for him. I used to cry at every single fight I had with my husband... I don't anymore. But it is okay to cry.. it expresses emotions and also relives the stress on you.

Do you see it as a bad thing that you don't cry anymore?

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Originally Posted by Skell

Do you see it as a bad thing that you dont cry anymore?

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Actually no I don't, why cry every time when you know the same stuff is going to happen? He always comes back after like walking for a few minutes and everything goes back to normal.

Maybe your relationship is turning into a more mature one... where people just sit and communicate after an argument.

Who knows.

As the relationship grew, so did you. You now can argue with a solution in mind as opposed to a possible end. That being said, both of you should try talking it out so that you don't have to yell and cry and he doesn't have to leave.