About a month ago my straight A pretty much OCD girlfriend dumped me. Supposedly she

Only went out with me because "She felt sorry for me".. but that was coming from my

Friend who lies a lot. We dated for 9 weeks but my friend was a jerk to her. She was

Always too busy with her work to talk to me. So then today I was talking to my friend and

She walked by to go home. She looked back at me after she took a turn. Then I heard her

Friends say my name. She looked back at me as she drove away... I am really confused

So anything will help here.. :confused:

Sorry no one has responded to you yet. Since you said anything will help, here goes:

Not knowing you, or your ex, it is very hard to figure out what happened or what is going on. Needless to say, if your friend was a jerk to her, that definitely didn't help the situation. Maybe she felt that she didn't want to deal with your friend's abuse anymore. Did you stick up for her and tell your friend to stop whatever he was doing? If not, that could be the reason she broke up with you. But, I am only guessing here.

It sounds like you need closure, but if she doesn't want to talk to you about it, you really need to let it go and move on. Don't waste your energy trying to figure it out. You will drive yourself nuts. Ignore her. Find someone who is able to do a better job of communicating. There are lots of girls out there in this big world. AND, don't let your friend act like a jerk and mistreat your girlfriends. That isn't a very good friend, In my opinion. Tell him to get a life and stop ruining yours.

Get some decent friends, you don't need people who start getting involved in your life in a bad way! Maybe it was out of jealousy? A GF tends to take over your life for those who are unexperienced. Plenty more fish in the sea. Keep busy and get on with your life. 9 weeks isint long!

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Originally Posted by ImaPerson

About a month ago my straight A pretty much OCD girlfriend dumped me. Supposedly she

only went out with me because "She felt sorry for me".. but that was coming from my

friend who lies alot. We dated for 9 weeks but my friend was a jerk to her. She was

always too busy with her work to talk to me. So then today I was talkin to my friend and

she walked by to go home. She looked back at me after she took a turn. Then I heard her

friends say my name. She looked back at me as she drove away... I am really confused

so anything will help here..:confused:

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Move on, if she comes back to you then she is yours