Hi everyone

I resently walked out on my boyfriend because I didn't realise what I had. We both lived in england (but I'm from wales) I love him so much and I just wanted 2 teach him a lesson.
He's away wiv the army for 3 weeks now and says he wants some space which is fine and he said after that he will decide weather he wants me back but its killing me having 2 wait, I know I have 2 but I'm terrified that he's going to say he don't want me back.

So if anyone has any advice please message me back I would be sooooo gratefull

Thank u

Emma
Xxx

Well give him sapce... and then maybe he will realize that he loves u and can't be without u... sometimes people realize how much they love something by not seeing them anymore, so maybe u still have a chance. But if things dun work out don't get upset... like I tell evryone JUST MOVE ON, in a couple of months u will be looking back and laughing.

Well it sounds like he wound up teaching you a lesson instead. And I hope you learned from it. Sometimes when you burn your bridges behind you you can't retrace your steps. Give him the space he says he needs for a while. Later you can show him how you've (hopefully) changed and maybe you'll win him back. I can't make any promises but it's the best shot you've got.

What did he do that you needed to teach him a lesson?

The advice I would offer you is to start treating people that care about you with respect as for this guy apologize and offer him a truthful explanation.

What a lowdown, dirty thing to do to someone, let alone some one you care for. My advice is never, ever play that game again.

Its stupid really he didn't even do anything that bad, we just started argueing all the time and he never seemed 2 listen to me so I wanted 2 show him that I wasn't going to take it anymore, I know its childish

OK you can all get off my back, it wasn't just me doing the wrong thing he pushed me about strangaled me smashed up my TV, so I left him 2 prove to him that I wasn't going to take it anymore!!

First you say that he didn't do anything bad, then you say he strangled you and smashed up your TV, is that true or is it that you think people are getting at you and you are trying not to sound like the bad person?

Well if he strangled you and smashed your TV (dont know if I believe you or not), I don't understand why you want him back. Id be hoping he doesn't come back!

Move on with your life and learn your lessons. Sounds like you made some silly mistakes and acted immaturely.

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Originally Posted by sexy_em

ok you can all get off my back, it wasnt just me doin the wrong thing he pushed me about strangaled me smashed up my tv, so i left him 2 prove 2 him that i wasnt gonna take it anymore!!!!

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I am so confused by this post. Not because it paints a completely different version of the events that you painted before. No I'm confused because you say we can all get off your back and nobody has made a post on this thread in 3 weeks. And even more confusing, you were the last one to make a post 3 weeks ago and now the first one to start this time. So apparently the only one on your back... is you.

No it is the truth he used 2 put it in my head that everythin was my fault and he had a really bad temper, I really don't know why I want him back really its silly but I really do love him I just want the pain 2 go away now

I understand... I shouldn't want my ex back either by the way she treated me but all the little things play in my head and I'm still trying to get back with her... I'm so stupid... Life was great with them and I have to get that in my head... WAS... It will never be like that again... I wish that can sink in together with how bad she was... I keep picturing a nice person like she used to be... Then she got mean and I blame it on myself... We need help!

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Originally Posted by sexy_em

no it is the truth he used 2 put it in my head that everythin was my fault and he had a really bad temper, i really dont know why i want him back really its silly but i really do lov him i just want the pain 2 go away now

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Well in that case the only way the pain will go away is if you leave him for good and move on with your life in a healthy fashion.

This obviously isn't working and it is only causing you heart ache.

Get yourself healthy and everything else will fall in place.

Good luck!

Thanks 2 everyone I really appreciate all of your oppinions xx