Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we have had sex a few times but the problem is that I just can't have an orgasm. He has tried to penetrate deeply but I just don't have an orgasm. I do feel good for a few seconds but I just don't have an orgasm. I don't want to use any form of toy or medications, I want it to be special and natural. Are there an positions that could make me ? Or any thing to do before having sex?
Please help, I need to know because I don't find this normal and it is getting to my head and my boyfriends head.

Are you only trying intercourse? Most woman to not O on intercourse alone. Most woman need clitoral stimulation. 80% of woman do not O from plain old intercourse alone.

Do you do oral? If done properly you will O.

Hand stimulation, if done properly works as well and you will reach O.

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You and your partner really need to learn this stuff. You will be so much happier. Oral is so key for woman.

Too many guys think - wam-bam thank you mam. If he is not willing to try and change - time for a new partner.

Just to add to this: one of my girlfriends had her first orgasm after I gave her a good oral... I won't mention that the following days were the first time I experienced tongue pain :)

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Originally Posted by sweety

hi, i have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we have had sex a few times but the problem is that i just can't have an orgasm. He has tried to penetrate deeply but i just don't have an orgasm. I do feel good for a few seconds but i just dont have an orgasm. I dont want to use any form of toy or medications, i want it to be special and natural. Are there an positions that could make me ? Or any thing to do before having sex??
Please help, i need to know because i dont find this normal and it is getting to my head and my boyfriends head.

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From behind or you lying on your back and him standing at the edge of the bed. Don't be afraid to go hard it feels SO good.


A non-sex mode, his fingers in you pushing in and out fast/deep. So he can feel the palm of his hand hitting you as he pushes his fingers hard into you. You giving him a hand job at the same time works amazingly well.